What am I to do?
The Bombshell has been dropped... Anybody got a spare room in Glasgow I can rent out? My ex has decided that she wants to live alone with our son next year... if that wasn't bad enough I found out she was going on about the next "academic" year... which is the end of may or there abouts! needless to say I freaked out last night and went on a small bender... normally I wouldn't just up and leave with my son in the house (she was there too!) but I've been assured in the past he's in capable hands and it's apparently easier for her when I'm not around, although sometimes I wonder... I know it's not me that's the problem, it's not like I make things difficult for her, I'm well house trained, I've moved into my own room I've given her space I don't shout unless I've been shouted at, I don't start arguments either, I don't hog the TV but STILL!!! she can't seem to function properly when I'm around... What's that all about? I make my own dinner at the best of times, I can look after myself, I supported her through the rest of her academic years and now that she's reaching her career level, I'm being kicked out? What have I done to deserve this?? Acted like a doormat no doubt... I don't care anymore! I'm going with her till I find somewhere I can live happily and when I do, I'm taking my suite and my media and playstation and other furniture with me!! unless that leaves Devin with nothing to watch his DVD's on then I'll be more considerate of course. Some people are just so ungrateful it disgusts me! and to top it all off, I've got this shit to deal with in the run up to my exams in what? two weeks time? Somebody tell me if i'm being unreasonable here? She's fucking up my life just because she wants to make a fresh start and have some personal space? that'd be great wouldn't it? But at what cost?
It's all BOLLOCKS!!
The Bombshell has been dropped... Anybody got a spare room in Glasgow I can rent out? My ex has decided that she wants to live alone with our son next year... if that wasn't bad enough I found out she was going on about the next "academic" year... which is the end of may or there abouts! needless to say I freaked out last night and went on a small bender... normally I wouldn't just up and leave with my son in the house (she was there too!) but I've been assured in the past he's in capable hands and it's apparently easier for her when I'm not around, although sometimes I wonder... I know it's not me that's the problem, it's not like I make things difficult for her, I'm well house trained, I've moved into my own room I've given her space I don't shout unless I've been shouted at, I don't start arguments either, I don't hog the TV but STILL!!! she can't seem to function properly when I'm around... What's that all about? I make my own dinner at the best of times, I can look after myself, I supported her through the rest of her academic years and now that she's reaching her career level, I'm being kicked out? What have I done to deserve this?? Acted like a doormat no doubt... I don't care anymore! I'm going with her till I find somewhere I can live happily and when I do, I'm taking my suite and my media and playstation and other furniture with me!! unless that leaves Devin with nothing to watch his DVD's on then I'll be more considerate of course. Some people are just so ungrateful it disgusts me! and to top it all off, I've got this shit to deal with in the run up to my exams in what? two weeks time? Somebody tell me if i'm being unreasonable here? She's fucking up my life just because she wants to make a fresh start and have some personal space? that'd be great wouldn't it? But at what cost?
It's all BOLLOCKS!!
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sifo:
Naah, she wants to give me as much access as I like... but I think the tables are turning ever so slightly as she seems to have had a slight change of heart about living alone... we're on the lookout for a decent flat in town with 3 bedrooms as she believes that we both need a fresh start, as where we live at the moment is where we lived when we were together... see what happens I guess... she likes to live her life in little films... one at a time... drams, drama, drama...
helena:
thanks for the comment sweetie! 