So again this weekend I was been told I am not "relationship material". That I was fun to fuck but apparently I am not the kind of guy anyone wants to settle down with. Guess I need to come to terms with that, since nobody can explain to me why they think this is.
I feel I am a decent and respectful, sometimes even chivalrous. But that doesn't seem to be enough... I have a good paying job, own not one but two cars. I shower, and brush my teeth every day. I use deodorant and on occasion (not often) I wear cologne. I don't dress up often, a jeans and t-shirt kinda guy... but when I have to I have been known to where a 3 piece suit or tux if need be.
I bought flowers for the gal because she called me and told me she was having a bad day at work. So I thought I would surprise her at work, I thought it went over well she smiled gave me a huge hug and walked me around and introduced me to all her co-workers. Then later that night, she tells me... "your just not the kind of guy a girl wants to be with". WTF! Seriously what am I doing wrong?
On a lighter note... I made a new friend. Adopted him on Saturday.... he brightened the rest of my weekend. His name is Oso (spanish for bear) and he's an 8 month old red Dobermann Pinscher.
I feel I am a decent and respectful, sometimes even chivalrous. But that doesn't seem to be enough... I have a good paying job, own not one but two cars. I shower, and brush my teeth every day. I use deodorant and on occasion (not often) I wear cologne. I don't dress up often, a jeans and t-shirt kinda guy... but when I have to I have been known to where a 3 piece suit or tux if need be.
I bought flowers for the gal because she called me and told me she was having a bad day at work. So I thought I would surprise her at work, I thought it went over well she smiled gave me a huge hug and walked me around and introduced me to all her co-workers. Then later that night, she tells me... "your just not the kind of guy a girl wants to be with". WTF! Seriously what am I doing wrong?
On a lighter note... I made a new friend. Adopted him on Saturday.... he brightened the rest of my weekend. His name is Oso (spanish for bear) and he's an 8 month old red Dobermann Pinscher.
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being a nice guy, we tend to get the short end of the stick. i feel your pain.