Fuck dating... it sucks ass. I have been trying to mull over the recent events and figure out where I am going wrong. I mean it has to be me I am the only common denominator here right....
Examples;
(In a somewhat random order...)
1.) Met pink haired psycho-billy gal at a concert a while, we had a good time talking about music and sharing a few drinks. Asked her out but she apparently lives 3 hours out of town but frequents my town often and we exchange numbers. She calls me a week later saying she's going to be in town for some photo shoot she's doing... we met for drinks and had a good time... a month later she calls me to tell me she's going to be in town for a car show. I tell her I would be there, we have a great time walking around checking out cars and then... she asks me to dinner. At dinner she's a bit flirty, touching me a lot more than in the past. We kiss a bit and then she carries on about her boyfriend 3 hours away from us, and 4 hours away from where she lives...
2.) Brazilian rockabilly girl, this one I met at a movie screening and all we did was talk about movies and music. Got a long great... found each other later on face book emailed back and forth for awhile then decided to go out on a date with each other... went to dinner she wouldn't eat because she was broke... I told her I would pay and not to worry about it... she said no thanks. I mean our plans where dinner and drinks she choose the date and time and places but didn't enjoy any of it. I leave for vacation for a week, come back and she has a boyfriend now. A month later they break up and she's calling me again wanting to talk about it. Sure I can be a friend and listen... got to her place and talk for a bit, and now she's all over me. I try to pull things back, said "I am not interested in being your rebound guy"... she says okay and keeps on the attack. The next day her status on face book goes from single to relationship with "the guy we talked about". Ran into her at the car show mentioned in the previous short story and she's jealous and single again, wants me to call her... I do later and yeah she's taken again, new guy different problems.
3.) Introduced to a co-worker of my roommate... cute gal a bit younger than me, metal head.... first date went really well. Second date was fantastic, the day after the second date she was pissed at me, called my cell phone left a message saying that she wouldn't waste time with me again. Not sure what that's about, tried emailing her and calling her but she won't talk to me.
4.) Hispanic hairstylist... Very strange compatibility here never got along with someone so well we dated for all of three months. Then days before my birthday she tells me she's going to be out of town camping. Prior to that she tells me that she needed time to figure out if what she wanted was a husband, boyfriend, or fuck buddy.... I have talked to her a bit since her camping trip but she still seems undecided and kinda stand offish so I am guessing she's made up her mind and I don't fit that plan.
5.) The girl with the Mohawk, she's fun not quite the gal I would normally date but she is a good conversationalist and is fun to talk to. We met at a coffee shop, both sitting alone outside smoking, drinking coffee and reading books about zombies. We traded books for a bit and then discussed both, traded numbers and went on a date. First date I get a text after the date that says "Your so attractive, I can't stand it". I later ask her for a second date went pretty well, the text from her after that date "You make me so nervous, I just want jump out of my clothes". Third date... I get stood up.
6.) The red.... just don't know what to tell you here.
Examples;
(In a somewhat random order...)
1.) Met pink haired psycho-billy gal at a concert a while, we had a good time talking about music and sharing a few drinks. Asked her out but she apparently lives 3 hours out of town but frequents my town often and we exchange numbers. She calls me a week later saying she's going to be in town for some photo shoot she's doing... we met for drinks and had a good time... a month later she calls me to tell me she's going to be in town for a car show. I tell her I would be there, we have a great time walking around checking out cars and then... she asks me to dinner. At dinner she's a bit flirty, touching me a lot more than in the past. We kiss a bit and then she carries on about her boyfriend 3 hours away from us, and 4 hours away from where she lives...
2.) Brazilian rockabilly girl, this one I met at a movie screening and all we did was talk about movies and music. Got a long great... found each other later on face book emailed back and forth for awhile then decided to go out on a date with each other... went to dinner she wouldn't eat because she was broke... I told her I would pay and not to worry about it... she said no thanks. I mean our plans where dinner and drinks she choose the date and time and places but didn't enjoy any of it. I leave for vacation for a week, come back and she has a boyfriend now. A month later they break up and she's calling me again wanting to talk about it. Sure I can be a friend and listen... got to her place and talk for a bit, and now she's all over me. I try to pull things back, said "I am not interested in being your rebound guy"... she says okay and keeps on the attack. The next day her status on face book goes from single to relationship with "the guy we talked about". Ran into her at the car show mentioned in the previous short story and she's jealous and single again, wants me to call her... I do later and yeah she's taken again, new guy different problems.
3.) Introduced to a co-worker of my roommate... cute gal a bit younger than me, metal head.... first date went really well. Second date was fantastic, the day after the second date she was pissed at me, called my cell phone left a message saying that she wouldn't waste time with me again. Not sure what that's about, tried emailing her and calling her but she won't talk to me.
4.) Hispanic hairstylist... Very strange compatibility here never got along with someone so well we dated for all of three months. Then days before my birthday she tells me she's going to be out of town camping. Prior to that she tells me that she needed time to figure out if what she wanted was a husband, boyfriend, or fuck buddy.... I have talked to her a bit since her camping trip but she still seems undecided and kinda stand offish so I am guessing she's made up her mind and I don't fit that plan.
5.) The girl with the Mohawk, she's fun not quite the gal I would normally date but she is a good conversationalist and is fun to talk to. We met at a coffee shop, both sitting alone outside smoking, drinking coffee and reading books about zombies. We traded books for a bit and then discussed both, traded numbers and went on a date. First date I get a text after the date that says "Your so attractive, I can't stand it". I later ask her for a second date went pretty well, the text from her after that date "You make me so nervous, I just want jump out of my clothes". Third date... I get stood up.
6.) The red.... just don't know what to tell you here.