friends with benefits.....what does that mean? Does it mean that we can fool around....then go fool around with other people? Or does it mean that we can exclusivlly fool around and still be like best friends but not "going out". Theres another one..."going out". To me, "going out" means that you have an emotional draw to the person and they have the same for you and it is expressed between the two. Hanging out...watching movies..late night phone calls...the physical stuff...all part of going out right?? Then why is it that we are stil just "friends"...but we have all the parts of "going out". I dont know. I know that haveing a hot gal as a friend with benefits is like every mans dream...but im not every man. I cant just hook up with her and let her go. I want to be with her and I have fallen in love with her....quite a while ago. She on the other hand cares alot for me...and says that we are best friends...but nothing more. Just friends who have an emotional bond. But then she goes out with these other guys and says to me that she did it to get me mad....WTF???!!!?!?! Why would she try to get me mad and/or jealous if she didnt have "real" feelings for me......can someone help me out? 
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rude_ruca:
::puts hand on hip:: D, hunny, are you STILL trying to make it work with this fickle chick? I have to agree with Roxie, I think this needs to fall into the circular file. I mean, really, D. If you have in fact caught feelings, it can only end badly. But,! We've all been down this road before, so my heart truly does go out to you. Tough decisions are going to have to be made. Call me at home if you need me (i tired your cell number the other day and it was a no go- have you gotten a new cell number??) 
jamielee:
Awesome meeting you. And now I understand your handle. 