I suppose some people "drain" us all of our energies. Albeit for the better or the worse.
Some soothing people drain your bad energy away and make you feel great. Well those are the ones you naturally want around you
But given my case, when you have someone around you for 8 hours that does the opposite. I reckon you have to be proactive and not let this person get you in a bad mood.
After my rant about my work colleague yesterday I feel a lot better funny enough. And have gone into a more understanding frame of mind. After some thinking I've come about the idea that maybe sometimes I'm too harsh on people and expect them to have the same standards I'd like or expect of myself.
And sadly for this poor fella' it's just not possible. I've come to the conclusion that he probably has some pretty bad learning disabilities and that I should simply be more grateful that I can do all the cooking for example.
A positive frame of mind is what we all need to be happy. And thats what I'll always try to aim for.
I now feel a little on the sad and sorry side for my previous frame of mind. But I suppose anger is good when it's controled and understood. And maybe I should just consider myself lucky that my work partners standards are pretty low, as it makes me look better than I probably am.
So the way forward is to remain positive: No matter what! Not always easy, but that is the best way
And when confronted with things like wind you up and piss you off, always try to put yourself in that persons shoes and try to understand their actions. On a less positive note, the guy is real hard work and always will be. I'll just had to work around that fact.
For the record, I'm glad I'm back to my usual self, happy that is.
There's Not a problem in the world that we can't address ^_^ And I must take this opportunity to say sorry to all suicides of all types for sometimes being an absolute brute!
* Tras el puro cabreo de ayer con mi compi de trabajo al zoquete, he llegado a la conclusion de que yo tb puedo ser un poco gilipollas por no intentar comprender que pueda ser que el colega no tiene todas sus facultadses en orden. De hecho creo que tiene problemas de aprendizaje y que no esta del todo bien de la cabeza. Y por eso ahora estoy bastante arrepentido de la rabia que fluia por mi sangre.
Me parecia muy injusto que el personaje este sea bastante inutil en bastantes cosas. Pero tras un poquito de darle al coco de forma positiva he llegado a la conclusion que no es del todo malo que este personaje no aprenda bien todas las cositas que le quiero ensenyar, y que no tenga los mismos niveles de servicio que tengo yo. Porque al fin al cabo, el tio me hace de quedar bien siempre.
Y la manera mejor de andar por esta vida es de intentar ponerte en las botas de todo el mundo que te esten dando problemas o razones de queja, e intentar comprender porque la lian tanto.
Asi tras una charla sincera anoche nos dijimos varias verdades y todo esta solucionado, hasta la proxima eso es. Porquie la verdad sea dicha, el tipo este es un mentirosillo que me pone de los nervios la mayoria de las veces. Yo soy el que tiene que tratar de entenderlo y tomar medidas para que no me afecte demasiado.
Asi les pido perdon a todos los/las suicidas por ser un bestia de vez en cuando.
Some soothing people drain your bad energy away and make you feel great. Well those are the ones you naturally want around you
But given my case, when you have someone around you for 8 hours that does the opposite. I reckon you have to be proactive and not let this person get you in a bad mood.
After my rant about my work colleague yesterday I feel a lot better funny enough. And have gone into a more understanding frame of mind. After some thinking I've come about the idea that maybe sometimes I'm too harsh on people and expect them to have the same standards I'd like or expect of myself.
And sadly for this poor fella' it's just not possible. I've come to the conclusion that he probably has some pretty bad learning disabilities and that I should simply be more grateful that I can do all the cooking for example.
A positive frame of mind is what we all need to be happy. And thats what I'll always try to aim for.
I now feel a little on the sad and sorry side for my previous frame of mind. But I suppose anger is good when it's controled and understood. And maybe I should just consider myself lucky that my work partners standards are pretty low, as it makes me look better than I probably am.
So the way forward is to remain positive: No matter what! Not always easy, but that is the best way
And when confronted with things like wind you up and piss you off, always try to put yourself in that persons shoes and try to understand their actions. On a less positive note, the guy is real hard work and always will be. I'll just had to work around that fact.
For the record, I'm glad I'm back to my usual self, happy that is.
There's Not a problem in the world that we can't address ^_^ And I must take this opportunity to say sorry to all suicides of all types for sometimes being an absolute brute!
* Tras el puro cabreo de ayer con mi compi de trabajo al zoquete, he llegado a la conclusion de que yo tb puedo ser un poco gilipollas por no intentar comprender que pueda ser que el colega no tiene todas sus facultadses en orden. De hecho creo que tiene problemas de aprendizaje y que no esta del todo bien de la cabeza. Y por eso ahora estoy bastante arrepentido de la rabia que fluia por mi sangre.
Me parecia muy injusto que el personaje este sea bastante inutil en bastantes cosas. Pero tras un poquito de darle al coco de forma positiva he llegado a la conclusion que no es del todo malo que este personaje no aprenda bien todas las cositas que le quiero ensenyar, y que no tenga los mismos niveles de servicio que tengo yo. Porque al fin al cabo, el tio me hace de quedar bien siempre.
Y la manera mejor de andar por esta vida es de intentar ponerte en las botas de todo el mundo que te esten dando problemas o razones de queja, e intentar comprender porque la lian tanto.
Asi tras una charla sincera anoche nos dijimos varias verdades y todo esta solucionado, hasta la proxima eso es. Porquie la verdad sea dicha, el tipo este es un mentirosillo que me pone de los nervios la mayoria de las veces. Yo soy el que tiene que tratar de entenderlo y tomar medidas para que no me afecte demasiado.
Asi les pido perdon a todos los/las suicidas por ser un bestia de vez en cuando.