My boyfriend's 16 year old baby sister is pregnant...
I'm freaking the fuck out.
I'm still conservative enough, and old-fashioned enough to not think most 16 year olds should be having sex... even though I realize they do... let alone their family not doing everything in their power to protect them.
When asked if I could live with Rob's dad he said I'd steal things... I was 18 and had proven myself responsible, and he even liked me when he met me. But her 17 year old boyfriend who I haven't met but I'm pretty sure is a dipshit is ok... living in Rob's old bedroom... which disturbed me enough... I couldn't understand how Rob could take it... but the insult of playing favorites, and his dad insulting me but allowing "dipshit" (as he will now be known) who didn't even have a job?
I had a shitty family life, which is why I allowed Rob to ask.
But to allow his bedroom to be taken over by a dipshit? To allow favoritism without standing up for himself, let alone me who was insulted by his father? He could've moved back in months ago to protect Jessie, I told him to, but it's what's convinient for him.
I'm so disgusted by his family, they should've protected her... that's their number one job, and I've never seen them actually try. Nobody stood up for what was right, nobody stood up to protect her so she won't ruin her future... alcohol, smoking, drugs (cocaine), now pregnancy from her boyfriend who her dad didn't have the guts to stand up and tell his 16 year old no to him living with them? He said he doesn't think his dad knows she's pregnant... but his grandma knows? That's kinda one of those things the person housing her should know. It's so fucked up, I could go on and on... but I won't.
Most people I've told think I'm over-reacting by feeling I'm so disgusted with everyone in his family, including him, that I want to break up with him... after all I fought for part of me feels stupid... but if his family is like that, how can I expect him to protect any kids we have? I'm so throughly disgusted... I went running... not just walking, bolted out the door, screaming.
I'm freaking the fuck out.
I'm still conservative enough, and old-fashioned enough to not think most 16 year olds should be having sex... even though I realize they do... let alone their family not doing everything in their power to protect them.
When asked if I could live with Rob's dad he said I'd steal things... I was 18 and had proven myself responsible, and he even liked me when he met me. But her 17 year old boyfriend who I haven't met but I'm pretty sure is a dipshit is ok... living in Rob's old bedroom... which disturbed me enough... I couldn't understand how Rob could take it... but the insult of playing favorites, and his dad insulting me but allowing "dipshit" (as he will now be known) who didn't even have a job?
I had a shitty family life, which is why I allowed Rob to ask.
But to allow his bedroom to be taken over by a dipshit? To allow favoritism without standing up for himself, let alone me who was insulted by his father? He could've moved back in months ago to protect Jessie, I told him to, but it's what's convinient for him.
I'm so disgusted by his family, they should've protected her... that's their number one job, and I've never seen them actually try. Nobody stood up for what was right, nobody stood up to protect her so she won't ruin her future... alcohol, smoking, drugs (cocaine), now pregnancy from her boyfriend who her dad didn't have the guts to stand up and tell his 16 year old no to him living with them? He said he doesn't think his dad knows she's pregnant... but his grandma knows? That's kinda one of those things the person housing her should know. It's so fucked up, I could go on and on... but I won't.
Most people I've told think I'm over-reacting by feeling I'm so disgusted with everyone in his family, including him, that I want to break up with him... after all I fought for part of me feels stupid... but if his family is like that, how can I expect him to protect any kids we have? I'm so throughly disgusted... I went running... not just walking, bolted out the door, screaming.
wyldewolfe:
DAMN that is fucked up, and I don't think you are overreacting