shilo

Starting looking for a new job. When you get one all lined up, burn this bridge, and tell your boss to go Fuck Off and Die! It will be worth the gap on your resume trust me.

I just love how everyone is blaming you for having to have a job (umm but is anyone offering in that same breath to provide a job? hello?! people need money!).

second, people abuse power. And, when that happens - which it does in the workplace - it can have an effect on the person who is obligated to work for that person. Harassment for example is real.

third, yes it's a fact. you are beautiful. but how is it that being beautiful should somehow render someone impervious to damaging abuse of power in work environments?! Being beautiful, which you are, is a separate matter entirely.

, thank you for putting this out there - it takes courage to own this stuff and be real about it. most people when they feel shitty about things either pretend it's not there (denial) or blame themselves (internalization). I like this quote from Dimples: "be yourself & love yourself for all of who you are." great advice. I think it's tough - especially in this economy. One thing I like about the "all of who you are" is that while he is there being a class-A asshole at work, your whole being and all the things you do - that is a lot more than any job. and it's sacred. all of it. I'm sorry you're going through this and hope it may pass soon.