In my travels on the internet I came across this site called "Sarcastic Sage - Advice you can live without"
I found a post that was so on-point to a recent event that I read about on SG - that I couldn't help but wonder if this was actually penned by one of the individuals involved. See below:
Dear Sarcastic Sage,
I have been living with this girl for three years now. She's not my type, but has a high sex drive. She has major anxiety issues that she claims she carried over from her ex husband - but after three years of being separated from him - I'm realizing that her issues are her own and not likely to change.
She constantly questions my motives and what I'm doing, and has been pressuring me to marry her and have a child. Well, I'm still married and have no intention of ever divorcing my wife. Why? Because, well, marriage is an institution and who wants to be institutionalized? Staying married is one way to not get pressured into getting married again - if you get my drift.
I'm not seeing anyone else, and god/goddess knows I've looked, and keep looking. But no one else will have me.
Because of her insecurities, I know this isn't going to work out and nothing serious will ever develop unless she does a complete 180. So I told her that we could do a commitment ceremony and that we are married in our hearts - and we did - and for now she's bought into it.
Is it wrong to stay with her until I get tired of her crap just because the sex is free?
Speed Racer
Speed Racer,
Dude, there's nothing "free" about sex with a lunatic. But kudo's to you for getting her to buy into it. So she has a limited intellect too? Good luck with that!
There is nothing wrong with carrying on a strictly physical relationship and hiding your feelings from the other person. In fact, you are doing her a favor by further nurturing her insecurities. Unless she is completely and utterly destroyed emotionally how else would she know that she needs help and needs to change?
I found a post that was so on-point to a recent event that I read about on SG - that I couldn't help but wonder if this was actually penned by one of the individuals involved. See below:
Dear Sarcastic Sage,
I have been living with this girl for three years now. She's not my type, but has a high sex drive. She has major anxiety issues that she claims she carried over from her ex husband - but after three years of being separated from him - I'm realizing that her issues are her own and not likely to change.
She constantly questions my motives and what I'm doing, and has been pressuring me to marry her and have a child. Well, I'm still married and have no intention of ever divorcing my wife. Why? Because, well, marriage is an institution and who wants to be institutionalized? Staying married is one way to not get pressured into getting married again - if you get my drift.
I'm not seeing anyone else, and god/goddess knows I've looked, and keep looking. But no one else will have me.
Because of her insecurities, I know this isn't going to work out and nothing serious will ever develop unless she does a complete 180. So I told her that we could do a commitment ceremony and that we are married in our hearts - and we did - and for now she's bought into it.
Is it wrong to stay with her until I get tired of her crap just because the sex is free?
Speed Racer
Speed Racer,
Dude, there's nothing "free" about sex with a lunatic. But kudo's to you for getting her to buy into it. So she has a limited intellect too? Good luck with that!
There is nothing wrong with carrying on a strictly physical relationship and hiding your feelings from the other person. In fact, you are doing her a favor by further nurturing her insecurities. Unless she is completely and utterly destroyed emotionally how else would she know that she needs help and needs to change?
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lahwok4689:
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