Okay... I usually don't post big blogs, but I'm going through a tough situation and I would like opinions.
For the past year and seven months, I was dating and living with a guy that I thought I was going to marry. Even though we fought on occassion, it was never over anything too serious and we always made up (we even joked about our fights). He started acting a little mean for a few days and when I asked him about it, he basically gave me the "i need space" speech. After a few days of ambiguity, he finally broke up with me. He had never talked to me about his feelings before and even as we were discussing things and breaking up, he never discussed any of his feelings with me.
I ended up finding some e-mails that he had recently sent to a girl that he plays online games with that were pretty fucking inappropriate and he SWEARS there's nothing too that (i'm not stupid... i know they had something going on). Now ever since we broke up, he plays his video games from the time he gets home until four in the morning EVERYday and doesn't want to talk to or be around me. At first I really wanted to start building a friendship with him, but he's being SUCH an asshole. All he talks about is his fucking space, but I can assure you that he already had PLENTY of space.
So last night, I woke up at 4 in the morning (who knows why) and right as I was turning over to go back to sleep, I heard his phone ring in the other room where he's sleeping... I just know it's some girl calling. It's only been like two weeks!!!
Somebody tell me what you think... I've been racking my brain over this situation trying to understand what's going through his head and I just can't even guess. Thanks guys.
For the past year and seven months, I was dating and living with a guy that I thought I was going to marry. Even though we fought on occassion, it was never over anything too serious and we always made up (we even joked about our fights). He started acting a little mean for a few days and when I asked him about it, he basically gave me the "i need space" speech. After a few days of ambiguity, he finally broke up with me. He had never talked to me about his feelings before and even as we were discussing things and breaking up, he never discussed any of his feelings with me.
I ended up finding some e-mails that he had recently sent to a girl that he plays online games with that were pretty fucking inappropriate and he SWEARS there's nothing too that (i'm not stupid... i know they had something going on). Now ever since we broke up, he plays his video games from the time he gets home until four in the morning EVERYday and doesn't want to talk to or be around me. At first I really wanted to start building a friendship with him, but he's being SUCH an asshole. All he talks about is his fucking space, but I can assure you that he already had PLENTY of space.
So last night, I woke up at 4 in the morning (who knows why) and right as I was turning over to go back to sleep, I heard his phone ring in the other room where he's sleeping... I just know it's some girl calling. It's only been like two weeks!!!
Somebody tell me what you think... I've been racking my brain over this situation trying to understand what's going through his head and I just can't even guess. Thanks guys.
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yeh, it's real difficult sometimes
like i said, sort of
the world is your oyster
and your pearl
time wounds all heels
and you will be fine
finer than fine
PM or Email me if youd like.
Keep your head up.