I make a lot of self-depreciating jokes, and a friend said to me, "You know, talking bad about yourself isn't a good thing, you should be more confident, it will help attract women." So, not only is that not true, but I've got the receipts to prove it.
Back in 2020, after the shutdown, I had lost some weight being stuck at home and not out eating garbage, but after putting some of it back on I decided I was gonna do something about it. So, I joined a gym, started working out, eating vegan, and taking better care of myself. I lost some weight, felt good and looked good. I decided that I needed to start thinking better about myself, and feeling more confident. In that year before I gained my dad bod back, would you like to know how many women either approached me, let me know they wanted to be approached, or reacted positively to me if I took a chance and talked to them anyway? I'll give you a hint, it's a number less than 1 and that rhymes with "nero".
So no, it DOES not matter, some people just aren't meant to find someone. I mean, I've got 3 wonderful kids, I've got family, I know people who don't even have that. And before someone says, "ThErE's AlWaYs SoMeOnE fOr EvErYoNe" as a native of a city built on bad math, that's some bad math right there. Yes, there are billions of people on the planet, but the odds of one interested in me coming to my city and somehow randomly bumping in to me? If you believe those odds, I've got bridges to sell you LOL
