so I talked about how I haven't really had actual conversations with the majority of women on the dating app that weren't scammers, but there is one group of women who actually do pretty well in that regard, and that's women on OF.
I know, seems odd at first, but it does make sense. For one, if you put people at ease, they may be more open to purchasing something (and OF is a business, after all). For two, they're people, so making conversation is something that humans usually and genuinely like doing. And lastly, they already know why you're talking to them (i.e. you want to see them naked and/or doing naughty things), so they have nothing to lose by just being casual and talking to you.
Lastly, I will say I feel bad for some of the women who try talking to me about things I think too logically about, since it "ruins the mood" as one young lady told me. When she asked what I would do if I came home and she was tied up in my room, I said immediately call the police and untie her before trying to get her dressed or at the very least covered in a blanket (I'm not going to prison over something like that, that's for sure). Or the one who asked what I would do if she showed up at my place wearing nothing underneath her coat (my response was not let her in, try to discern how she found out where I lived, and possibly call the police if she didn't leave). Lastly, the one who asked what my fantasies were, and seemed sad when I told her I don't have any (life and being demisexual means I don't bother with those anymore LOL). I don't do it maliciously (well, not usually; women who don't take my polite hints I do enjoy messing with them), it's just how my brain works.
