For someone that age, yeah you should take big swings and if it doesn't work out, you can literally afford to burn your life to the ground and start over. Sure, it may take years, and it may be extremely rough, but you got the time to fix your "mistakes".
At my age? Gods no! I can't afford anything like that. A setback at this age would ruin me for the rest of my life. So, good advice if you're young, not so much if you're older 🤔🙄😑😞
Also, I know someone who's in a relationship and they are looking for a third, and they were complaining about how difficult it is for both of them to find someone to agree on; which, as someone who can't even find a 2nd, is REALLY FUCKING ANNOYING! 1st world problems for sure, and I have zero empathy for them.
P.S. this is not begrudging anyone their lifestyle; what consenting adults do is none of my business. It just seems like a very selfish and petty problem to me, personally...
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