I remember I was talking to a female friend a while back, and she had scornfully said, "I don't get why so many guys follow those pages with the girls half-naked or dancing around. What's so special about it? Anyone can do that."
I had just looked at her and raised an eyebrow, but didn't say anything since it was obvious she was projecting. But as for what she said, I mean yes technically anyone can be naked and have their picture(s) taken, and as human beings we like to be in motion, it's in our nature. But being able to take GOOD pictures naked/half-naked and being able to dance provocatively are not just things most of us do automatically and well...at least, without some practice.
Yes, some of us are naturally photogenic and can move gracefully, but for most people this is a skill that needs to be practiced and practiced a LOT to get better at, which is OK. This also means that if this isn't something you want to do, you don't need to practice it, and that's OK too. After all, we all can't do something well all the time, because if we did it wouldn't be amazing, it would be mundane (nobody comments on someone walking usually after all LOL).
What all of this means is that it's OK to be appreciative of what others can do -even if it's something you don't want to do yourself- and it's OK to use what others can do as fuel and impetus for you following in their footsteps. What's not OK is to dismiss others' accomplishments if it's not something you care for, neglecting their hard work (and possible natural talent). Either appreciate it or ignore it, but don't treat it like it's no big deal.
