This is a conversation I have had plenty of time with my male friends, and a few times with my female friends (though with them, it had to come up naturally. Otherwise, you're just a creepy weirdo perv), and I just want you ladies to know:
You have no idea that some of the things you do are sexy.
Now, I'm not talking about the obvious stuff of course. Bent over showing off your cleavage or your ass, licking your lips, biting your finger. All of these things are sexy, and you all know it. Not that we're complaining, mind you, just pointing it out.
No, what I'm talking about are the little things you do that just strum that libido chord just right. Hell, even we can't explain why we think some of it is sexy, but we do. For instance, if I see a girl stretch while wearing a tank top or a sundress, and I watch the muscles in her back and shoulders grow taut...damn, that's nice. Or when she's working on something, and she is lost in thought and brushes her hair back over her ear...yup, good stuff.
So ladies, all I am saying is that, and I've heard this before, "I don't know how to be sexy! I feel silly making all those poses that they do in magazines or in porn or in photo sets!" this stuff isn't important. Trust us, those things are nice, but it's the little things where you are just being yourself and not being obvious that are really sexy to us, especially someone who is into you (a lover, boyfriend, or husband). I can't speak from the female perspective, but from the male perspective, this is very true. ;)