shakti

i would really like to have more threesomes and foursomes these days. i used to do things like that all the time in college. now it is harder- i mean, not living with a bunch of young folks around and all. usually the only way to meet people who are interested in the same thing is at local swingers clubs (which i'm not really into) and online. online to me is hard because i dont know how to represent myself accurately. all the pictures i have of me are from when i used to be stick skinny. and you never know if people are really like what they say. plus i am sooooooooooooo picky. i hate that i am this way. i try to change and to not be as picky about my lovers but i really cant help it. it's not something that just goes away and you can't force yourself to do things you are uncomfortable with.

i just dont know where or how to meet people and i'm feeling like my sex life is pretty vanilla right now. any suggestions?