sgtpepper28if

I wait. I'm not a tease, but I wait. I don't set a time limit.

I see no need to. I spend the first date getting to know someone And the second date.. and so on.
...A little archaic, but it's always worked for me. Plus, building the anticipation up is always more fun.

I figure that upon meeting me you generally get a feel- although, it's certainly fun to spring surprises on people.

If someone doesn't meet the "Kink Factor" it's easily remedied. Most people are not exactly fetishists, but still have interests in borders they haven't crossed before. Generally, because these interests are seen as taboo, said gentleman who are not apt to participate in those unsavory activities, are just too scared to admit their likes/dislikes.

It's all about making someone comfortable with what they want. Thus, the waiting. I can't have the kind of fun I'm into unless I trust someone.