It definitely relates. Thanks for the advice. I agree- it's all about passion. The reason I like him so much is because he is a very passionate person. He's a magician (hence the magic trick analogy) and I'm attracted to him because he is one of the most intense people I've ever met.... it isn't passion that he lacks. I think the passion needs to be two ways in order for it to work. I dunno. Maybe it's my fault.
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