A special note to my best friend:
you need to forget lax. he is nothing but trouble for you and I'll be damned if i let you go thru this shit with him again.
don't go out with him. don't give him an opportunity. he doesn't know how to treat you like a real person.
i'm not saying all this shit just because i don't like him.
i'm worried.
i'm worried that this will end up to be a cycle. you'll sit there and hear his apology (if) and be goo-goo over him because of his "honesty."
I cannot fucking stress this enough. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN HIM, AND I DON'T FUCKIN CARE IF HE IS HOT OR IF HE IS GOOD IN BED. HE FUCKED AN STD INFESTED GIRL BEHIND YOUR BACK.
As much as i know you don't or maybe won't want to talk about it, it's the damned truth. It's hard to come to terms, I know.
But I've seen you change.
You've become WAY too forgiving, and there IS a line you can cross for that.
I know you realized this when we were talking, but I'm not sure if you REALIZE, realize.
just forget about him. block his calls, tell him that you have told him the truth about everything and that because he REFUSES to listen, you have just given up on him. Tell him he needs help, that he needs to work on his ego and the lying.
and don't talk to him ever again.
I'm gonna say something now that I mean, yet it hurts to say regardless:
Merisa, you are pretty and talented and smart and strong; you have been thru a lot this past YEAR, and I full respect you for it--but if you go out with him, or stay friends with him...you will lose me. I will not talk to you, or even mention you in conversations. I'm priveleged to know you this well, but I'm not going to stand here and watch this.
It's like alcohol, Merisa. It's hard to get over, but it will kill you if you don't.
End it with him, or end it with me.
I'm sorry this had to be said, but I cannot be around someone who has so much to give to the world, and watch them waste it all on a guy. A guy that doesn't know the difference between right and wrong; one who doesn't care if you are a rag doll or a million dollar glass doll, yet still throws you around like nothing.
I'm sick of it. I'm sick of him treating you like a fucking dog. A fucking ADHD dog.
I love you, and even if you decide to end things with me, I will still love you.
-h- .
you need to forget lax. he is nothing but trouble for you and I'll be damned if i let you go thru this shit with him again.
don't go out with him. don't give him an opportunity. he doesn't know how to treat you like a real person.
i'm not saying all this shit just because i don't like him.
i'm worried.
i'm worried that this will end up to be a cycle. you'll sit there and hear his apology (if) and be goo-goo over him because of his "honesty."
I cannot fucking stress this enough. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN HIM, AND I DON'T FUCKIN CARE IF HE IS HOT OR IF HE IS GOOD IN BED. HE FUCKED AN STD INFESTED GIRL BEHIND YOUR BACK.
As much as i know you don't or maybe won't want to talk about it, it's the damned truth. It's hard to come to terms, I know.
But I've seen you change.
You've become WAY too forgiving, and there IS a line you can cross for that.
I know you realized this when we were talking, but I'm not sure if you REALIZE, realize.
just forget about him. block his calls, tell him that you have told him the truth about everything and that because he REFUSES to listen, you have just given up on him. Tell him he needs help, that he needs to work on his ego and the lying.
and don't talk to him ever again.
I'm gonna say something now that I mean, yet it hurts to say regardless:
Merisa, you are pretty and talented and smart and strong; you have been thru a lot this past YEAR, and I full respect you for it--but if you go out with him, or stay friends with him...you will lose me. I will not talk to you, or even mention you in conversations. I'm priveleged to know you this well, but I'm not going to stand here and watch this.
It's like alcohol, Merisa. It's hard to get over, but it will kill you if you don't.
End it with him, or end it with me.
I'm sorry this had to be said, but I cannot be around someone who has so much to give to the world, and watch them waste it all on a guy. A guy that doesn't know the difference between right and wrong; one who doesn't care if you are a rag doll or a million dollar glass doll, yet still throws you around like nothing.
I'm sick of it. I'm sick of him treating you like a fucking dog. A fucking ADHD dog.
I love you, and even if you decide to end things with me, I will still love you.
-h- .