There is a great quote that says, ” A man once asked his father,” Father, how will I ever find the right woman?”
His father replied, ” Forget finding the right woman, focus on being the right man.”
Don’t just be a male, be a man.
In the peaceful warrior sense.
Don’t just strive for external perfection of your body, peel through your emotional layers.
Don’t just strive to be dominant over society but connect with your heart space through community.
Don’t just strive for analytical intelligence but seek humbled wisdom from the spirit.
Don’t blind-fully move through your primal attraction but become aware of how you desire to be satisfied.
Become a true and constant explorer of your own mind, body and spirit.
You will be surprised how you can be met so fully in all areas of life.
You will then be able to truly satisfy the needs of a conscious woman by:
Not simply staring at her beauty but seeing every layer of her being.
By not just flirting with her mind but connecting with her heart.
By not just lusting for her body but craving and achieving satisfying intimacy with her soul.
By not only taking her to bed but creating a unique space so trusting and passionate that you both feel safe to explore the depth of both your desires.
When we look within we gain everything that is with out.
-Jocelyn daher