Hmmm.... things between me and the missus are still very distant and strange.

The plan at this stage is to carry on as though things are okay, and hope for the best.

Fingers crossed.

In the meantime, I might delay organising the whole wedding/honeymoon in Hawaii thing. I'm a practical sort of fella, and spending 4-6 thousand on a honeymoon I might not get to take sounds like a bad idea, especially when all the debt for the loan would end up solely on me... And if things go pear shaped, I'm gonna end up with either no job and raising two kids by myself, or full time work, but no money (child support plus loan repayments...).

Hope things turn out okay....