scott

unsure as to what to do in this situation.....

my girlfriend and i got together a month ago and have had a very intense hookup period. she amazes me with her understanding and i really like her.

heres the problem... i told her when i first met her that i didn't want to date anyone, because i'm far too busy and it wouldn't be fair to that person. i'm in a band, work full time, build websites part time, set up and promote festivals, and take photographs for about 5 artistic projects i'm working on.

i knew it in the first place, i'm too fucking busy at this point in my life to be a decent boyfriend.

so she said to me that she would lay off the clinginess for the week because i have another huge show that i'm trying to coordinate for this sunday, i have been bugged every day about how we havent had sex in a week [we both live with our conservative and supressive parents] and how she want's a boyfriend outside of the bar. [the only place and time our schedules allow us to see each other] she sounds like i'm turning her into a basket case, how do i do this without creating bitter resentment? i'd like to remain friends with her, i just feel like the title i hold in her life at the moment is unfair to us both.