scarlet_flame

Well, long distance stuff is hard. I am not sure what not being able to move in together has to do with it. Obviously when he is @ sea he dosn't get the chance to do that with anyone. He may be trying to just get out or he cares enough to want youto be happy. He may think that can''t happen with he and you not being able to live together for years. I'd talk to him about what you both want. Remember a relationship is about emotion, not distance. Find where he stands.

Guys can just be dicks too.

I hurts me to know that you are so sad. You shouldn't have to feel that miserable especially over a boy. I have no real advice for you except to take a vacation... to Baltimore. 666Irish and I will take you out, introduce you to some of the local suicide kitties and we will rock this town!!! Say the word and we will make it happen.