Evening you beautiful people!
Time for another blog post :D Tagging @missy, @lyxzen and @rambo as always :)
This time it's called "Best advice for dealing with haters?" This is quite close to my heart - this subject............
In Secondary School (or High school for all you Americans............. I'm in London.......... it's Secondary School for us!) from 13 and onwards till I left at 16 I was majorly bullied for the way I dressed, my appearance, the way I spoke, the music I listened to, my group of friends etc etc - for me: I took it to heart and it fucking hurt big time I even got bullied for not having a father on father's day............... teenagers! WHO NEEDS THEM!
This escalated at the family home where my "loving" younger sister made the same comments and yet again I took them to heart....... I don't like confrontation if you haven't already noticed ^.^ I got into an abusive relationship which didn't help in the slightest then My Mum and Granma (I spell it that way!) forced me on anti-depressants which almost killed me (which I will not go into!)
Fast forward 5 years and SG............ I always wanted to do it and never had the confidence to do until a friend of mine kicked me up the arse and I booked my first set. Still I don't feel confident enough and I'm on my second set...........
Having my second set reach 750 hearts has made me realize I don't need to have a set that has 1000 hearts or for it to be bought. My second set has received some criticism about me not smiling/grinning in my sets............. I'm not confident to smile "properly" because 1) I look like a twat and 2) That's not me............. yes I smile - I'm not a miserable bitch at all.......... but I will smile the way that I want to smile - you can't please everyone can you?
So my advice for all the haters................ is FUCK THEM SIDEWAYS WITH A VERY SHARP POINTY STICK!
As long as you as a SG/SGH put a set up that YOU and YOU alone are proud of - that's all that matters.......... I've learned the hard way by my sets not reaching 1000 hearts is to be comfortable and confident in your own beautiful way and if people can't see it, that's their problem and not yours <3
If you are a member and thinking of applying but you don't feel confident enough - my advice is do it not for anyone else - do it for you!
Speaking of sets: "What's New Pussycat?" went live 3 days and @valo and I are super proud with the way it's turned out!
THIS IS ME SMILING! Point proven that I do actually smile! What's New Pussycat <---------- that's the linky ^.^
Anyhoooooooooooooo take care and remember do you boo <3
Live Long and Prosper x
