won't be updating further. Apparently did something to upset impert, she informs me it's over. love her dearly, thought things were going very well. Have never felt closer to someone than with her---had a wonderful past few days, a friend's wedding Saturday and a nice picnic on the ocean Sunday night. Just been a wonderful 2 weeks, on top of many great times the previous 22 months. I don't understand what is occuring. heartbroken.