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santianna

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Friday May 27, 2005

May 27, 2005
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You know how it is with women and every magazine, movie and just about every book in the world. Im not talking about how the female of the species reacts to these things, Im talking about how they view the female creature.

Confusing, irrational, neurotic, dysfunctional, psychotic, insecure, possessive.

What nonsense.

Men are crazed. All of them, whatever race, religion, dick size and social status, they are all as difficult, if not more so (for lack of literature surrounding crazed men).

Over the past three years, I have fallen out of relationships for three reasons.

1) Im a free spirit. I do what I want and I get out of it when its too much. Im nearly never jealous, and Im definitely not possessive. But I will get mad if a guy lies and says he is completely faithful to me and I find out that he isnt. Its the deceitfulness thatll bother me. But I get dumped anyway, because Im too much of a free-spirit, and they dont see where its leading to. Theyre crazy about me, partially because they cannot possess me, and because they cannot, they dont want to have anymore to do with me.

2) Im obsessive. On very rare occasions, I get obsessive over certain men. Im not possessive, mind, obsessive. But somehow, that translates to stifling their time and their space. Possessive I suppose, but not in the sexual sense. They feel stifled, although I swear to God, Im really low emotional maintenance. Even when Im obsessive. But they break if off anyway, because they feel stifled, or because their freaked out that someones totally in love with them. And also perhaps because its just no challenge, a girl that they have already captivated.

3) Im indifferent. Hes not my type, Im not his type, were just sleeping together and having a good time, but no one really cares, so we eventually drift apart.

Okay, so given the three limitations as to what you can be when you are with a guy, give me the solution to a healthy relationship that works.

Youre damned if your relaxed about it, damned if your infatuated, and damned if you dont give a damn.

Well, damn those dicks.

xoxox
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santianna:
I don't think so. I've hung out with guys from all sorts of different backgrounds. Race/ Social Status/ Interests, from drummers and cartoonists to university professors and company directors, from every part of the world, they are the same.
May 27, 2005
blueskys:
The answers to these kind of questions never are to do with other people, you`ll find the right person when you are ready. Not because you hadn`t found anyone right until then, but because you will be in the right frame of mind to take someone in, compromise, trust and all the other things that it takes for a long term relationship.

well that`s what I think anyway bok
May 28, 2005

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