I took a weeks vacation so I could move, but not just so I could move, so I could have some time off because I hate my job. Well I only got one day to rest and relax, because moving just took too damn long.
Ive got alot about me that I hate, and I thought I had changed alot for so long, but when those situations came up again, I found out that I hadnt really changed much at all.
My girlfriend thinks Im still not completely over my ex. I dont know how to make her believe me, but I really am over her. Ok it took almost 2 years to get over, but I am now, I dont even think about her anymore. Were still friends so I still talk to her now and then, but I dont think about wanting her back, I dont miss her. But me and my new girlfriend were fighting last night and we brought up my old girlfriend and I told her to stop mentioning her, that I was over her, and we both said her name a bunch of times because of it. Well after a few minutes I accidentally called my new girlfriend by my old girlfriends name, it just came out because we had just been saying her name so much and it was stuck in my head. I dont know what to do now. She thinks I said it because Im still hung up on her, but it was honestly just that all the words got crammed up in my head, and what we were talking about was related to what we had been mentioning about my old girlfriend. Is anyone following this? Im so confused, I dont know what to do. Shit, all I ever do is fuck things up.
Im turning out to be just like my dad, as hard as Ive tried to not become him.
Ive got alot about me that I hate, and I thought I had changed alot for so long, but when those situations came up again, I found out that I hadnt really changed much at all.
My girlfriend thinks Im still not completely over my ex. I dont know how to make her believe me, but I really am over her. Ok it took almost 2 years to get over, but I am now, I dont even think about her anymore. Were still friends so I still talk to her now and then, but I dont think about wanting her back, I dont miss her. But me and my new girlfriend were fighting last night and we brought up my old girlfriend and I told her to stop mentioning her, that I was over her, and we both said her name a bunch of times because of it. Well after a few minutes I accidentally called my new girlfriend by my old girlfriends name, it just came out because we had just been saying her name so much and it was stuck in my head. I dont know what to do now. She thinks I said it because Im still hung up on her, but it was honestly just that all the words got crammed up in my head, and what we were talking about was related to what we had been mentioning about my old girlfriend. Is anyone following this? Im so confused, I dont know what to do. Shit, all I ever do is fuck things up.
Im turning out to be just like my dad, as hard as Ive tried to not become him.
The first thing you need to do is stop worrying about being like your dad. You control your destine and you have the power to change it, but if you dwell on shit you will be blinded and go nowhere.
Hit me up if you want to my opion on shit.
Your current reminds me of my ex. its scary.
I dont know much but i know you cant change anyone's mind. Least of all a woman. It sounds like she is bringing up all these small issues because she resents you or is unhappy with something.
It takes two to tango. and by that i mean, if she is genuinly upset about something she needs to make an effort not to dwell on it.
It sounds like you are doing a lot more work than she is. It seems like you might want to think about cutting your losses.
Thats what it seems like to me, maybe im just projecting my ex onto your girl. Hope you figure everything out.