So I had left a comment in Jills journal about not understanding people who are always in a relationship I want to continue that here in my own journal.
Well the subject being individuals who are always in a relationship are more like people who can't seem to function with out another person and no I dont mean a lone wolf because everyone needs human contact in one form or another. What i am referring to is for nstance a man or woman who seems to feel as though they need a significant other in their lives to make it one worth living (by this I mean the idealistic romanticism commonly portraid in many films and cheap grocery store novels). As a person who as never been in a relationship I can't really grasp why anyone would always want someone else around, im not trying to say that i dont understand the desire for someone in your life just dont understrand the constant need to be with someone. It seems as though a person might set aside their own desire for an ideal someone and would try and find something in someone tha would warrant them a relationship.
Aren't those people just weak? Seriously, not to sound like a dick or anything but its like some people have a fear or even an inability to acheive anything or even be without someone always by their side to give them "strength" like a crutch because they're disabled in some way.
Just so you know im not trying to put anyone down for their dating ways I just dont understand, and if anyone would like to explain I'de love to be enlightened.
After that lengthy entry im still going to list somethings about my self and yeah i know its kind of lame but i like reading other peoples lists they're interesting most of the time but not in this case
1. i was born here in El Paso - aka Mexico USA (you'd have to be here to understand) I am an army brat my dad has moved the family around a few times, i've lived in Augusta Georgia, Germany, San Antonio, Wichita Falls, and been through more places than i can remeber
2. im a shy kid now, used to be uncommonly timid and every time i moved it was right when i had finally well established myself in school and with friends so when it came time to settle into a new plave it was the same shitty process of trying to fit in to a new school in a different part of the country ( people are people of course but learning the regional customs and culture in order to fit in made it kind of a chore <besides no one really took to a fat awkward little kid> ). Still a little reluctant only because I only have history with a handful of people aside from my family.
3. I'm 5'11, black hair, brown eyes, glasses since 1st grade, big heavy guy I get that i look like a football player a lot or at least i could have prob kicked ass if i had played
4. if you didn't catch it from the legthy entry above, yes im single, very single
5. sports - include only racquetteball, grappling, karate (american kenpo karate)
6. hobbies - used to be martial arts and stretching i used to do the splits for long minutes at a time to limber my big ass up to move more fluidly when sparring and bend easier when grappling someone not i just cook, watch movies and chief it from time to time ( not proud of it just being honest )
7.fav colors - green like hunter green, navy blue, dark grays <charcoal>, black
8. fav foods and drinks - iced tea, sierra mist, coca-cola classic, beer <no lights>, guisados they are mexican style beef stews but in chile, pizza, sushi, fired rice, smoked turkey legs
9. biggest desires - to have good company more often, pussy <yes i meant to write that there...its been a while>
10. first time - it happened but not like i expected it to happen, it was also the last time
11. im no good at making shit up i've run out of ideas to write in here, if you have question feel free to ask, and if your reading this then thanks for taking the time
Well the subject being individuals who are always in a relationship are more like people who can't seem to function with out another person and no I dont mean a lone wolf because everyone needs human contact in one form or another. What i am referring to is for nstance a man or woman who seems to feel as though they need a significant other in their lives to make it one worth living (by this I mean the idealistic romanticism commonly portraid in many films and cheap grocery store novels). As a person who as never been in a relationship I can't really grasp why anyone would always want someone else around, im not trying to say that i dont understand the desire for someone in your life just dont understrand the constant need to be with someone. It seems as though a person might set aside their own desire for an ideal someone and would try and find something in someone tha would warrant them a relationship.
Aren't those people just weak? Seriously, not to sound like a dick or anything but its like some people have a fear or even an inability to acheive anything or even be without someone always by their side to give them "strength" like a crutch because they're disabled in some way.
Just so you know im not trying to put anyone down for their dating ways I just dont understand, and if anyone would like to explain I'de love to be enlightened.
After that lengthy entry im still going to list somethings about my self and yeah i know its kind of lame but i like reading other peoples lists they're interesting most of the time but not in this case
1. i was born here in El Paso - aka Mexico USA (you'd have to be here to understand) I am an army brat my dad has moved the family around a few times, i've lived in Augusta Georgia, Germany, San Antonio, Wichita Falls, and been through more places than i can remeber
2. im a shy kid now, used to be uncommonly timid and every time i moved it was right when i had finally well established myself in school and with friends so when it came time to settle into a new plave it was the same shitty process of trying to fit in to a new school in a different part of the country ( people are people of course but learning the regional customs and culture in order to fit in made it kind of a chore <besides no one really took to a fat awkward little kid> ). Still a little reluctant only because I only have history with a handful of people aside from my family.
3. I'm 5'11, black hair, brown eyes, glasses since 1st grade, big heavy guy I get that i look like a football player a lot or at least i could have prob kicked ass if i had played
4. if you didn't catch it from the legthy entry above, yes im single, very single
5. sports - include only racquetteball, grappling, karate (american kenpo karate)
6. hobbies - used to be martial arts and stretching i used to do the splits for long minutes at a time to limber my big ass up to move more fluidly when sparring and bend easier when grappling someone not i just cook, watch movies and chief it from time to time ( not proud of it just being honest )
7.fav colors - green like hunter green, navy blue, dark grays <charcoal>, black
8. fav foods and drinks - iced tea, sierra mist, coca-cola classic, beer <no lights>, guisados they are mexican style beef stews but in chile, pizza, sushi, fired rice, smoked turkey legs
9. biggest desires - to have good company more often, pussy <yes i meant to write that there...its been a while>
10. first time - it happened but not like i expected it to happen, it was also the last time
11. im no good at making shit up i've run out of ideas to write in here, if you have question feel free to ask, and if your reading this then thanks for taking the time
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ra0ul:
it's impossible to like beer too much.
gogo:
yes i know what you mean.. human mind is such an adorable complicated thingy isnt it 