sailorjessie

This post is in response to my last entry. My husband and i sat down and had a great talk, and i got to open up about an open relationship. He pretty much feels the same. We both agree that we don't feel that there is just 1 person in the world you are meant to be with, and even though we are best friends, sometimes we choose to keep the company of others. The term marriage we feel is out of date, and though we are legally bonded to one another, we both back peddled into what would have been if we had just not gotten married and simply lived the same way. Just because we have a document laying around doesn't mean that anytime he or i flirt or even want to do more than that with another person, should either of us feel guilty. We have an open relationship, and as long as we are honest with each other, we can come and go as we please. I always thought i was the more open about being in an open relationship, and that i would tread on his feelings. I should have brought it up sooner and just put myself at ease. Maybe now i wont feel so trapt like i have since we signed that damned binding contract haha, now knowing that i still have my freedom.