Just spent a lovely evening with Vic, the trans boi from NYE. Shooting pool, talking, getting to know one another... a nice date.
There is a lot to say on the subject, but I'm not really capable of coherently phrasing it all. But needless to say it mirrors all the other occasions where I have first in depth getting to know one another experiences with people who invariably become loves.
I knew from before that Vic could become a love. This just set me on the path.
It's these kinds of things that make me appreciate that I found out about Poly when I did. Because this would be painful at best if a connection like that would have to be cut off.
How can mono people demand their partners shut themselves off from possibilities like this? How could mono people shut themselves off? Why on earth would it even be a good thing?
There is a lot to say on the subject, but I'm not really capable of coherently phrasing it all. But needless to say it mirrors all the other occasions where I have first in depth getting to know one another experiences with people who invariably become loves.
I knew from before that Vic could become a love. This just set me on the path.
It's these kinds of things that make me appreciate that I found out about Poly when I did. Because this would be painful at best if a connection like that would have to be cut off.
How can mono people demand their partners shut themselves off from possibilities like this? How could mono people shut themselves off? Why on earth would it even be a good thing?
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He is talking about not limiting yourself and making needless rules.
It's fine to love only one peron and have sex with only one person, but why make a rule that tells you to shut out other possiblilities?? Why upset yourself or your partner with the term cheating? Why put yourself through a guilt trip if you end up falling in love with a close friend?
And it's not about valuing your relationship more than sleeping with multiple people, because poly is not about sleeping around. It's about being free, you shouldn't have to choose between your partner and someone else. Why not be open to both?