Saturday Aug 26, 2006

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People never cease to amaze me...this is probably why I dont expect a whole lot from most people.

My ex-gf still has communication with a guy that tried to sexually attack her. I cannot understand why she still sends messages and interacts with him. This event happened when we were dating and I can remember how she was the next day when I saw her after it happened. Its almost like she has forgotten. I truly do not understand. If someone wrongs me, it is etched into my mind. I sure as fuck dont talk to that person, or communicate with that at all. She gave me a bunch of unlikely excuses that sounded alot like bullshit. I dont know if I should be so mad about this, but this kid is a piece of shit. If I knew where he was and what he looked like, he would know how I felt about it. Id fuck him up. Im not a big person, but you wrong the people I care about, and Im gonna bring the fucking pain. This has been bothering me for a couple days now, so I just needed to vent.
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paine:
I know a few people like that. I think there's several factors: acting like nothing's wrong MAKES nothing wrong. If they "forgive" their attackers, they get to have that moral superiority, in their minds. It's part of the martyr mindset--look at me, I've been through so much and yet I'm still so great and forgive everyone. My mother is like this. There's also a bit of self-loathing in there...they can't believe the attacker is a bad person, no matter what they did, and they believe they deserved it, on some level...so they MUST talk to them.

This isn't coming out as clearly as I meant for it to...is it making sense? confused
liv:
puke arg u must feel bad with all of that... people sometimes is very surprising... but unfortunately not for good

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