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We all want to feel needed. But we all have different ways we want to feel needed. Some want to feel that people emotionally need them. Some want to feel that people financially need them. I could go on and on. They has to be a hundred different ways to feel needed. Most men I know want to feel something like financially needed. That someone depends on them to live their life. To be the bread winner. The one their significant other come to to fix things, to solve problems. This seems to be expected way. But this kind of need always left me feeling empty. Me I want to feel emotionally needed. That someone feels happy when I'm around. That they like me as a person not what I materially give them. I understand wanting things but that kind of need doesn't make me feel like I am important. Anyone can make money and give it away. But I am the only me there is. And you are the only you there is. Is it so wrong for me to want to feel that way. That as a man I don't care if I'm not the bread winner. That I want to feel needed for who I am as a person and not for what I do. I'm always willing to help and do things for friend but I to often feel like that's all they want from me. Maybe I'm wrong but its hard to deny the feeling. So tell me all those who read this post how do you want to feel needed.