Why is everybody a scum bag?? I'm having friend issues.
1. My former best friend and former roomate.. Moved her with me, I paid for everything during the move and when we got here. He couldn't find work in SD (he's an illegal alien) He went back to NY to work for a few months, found a GF and isn't coming back. Most of his shit is still here, and his cell phone is still in my name. PLUS he owes me like $1,500. He hasn't even mentioend paying me back at all, even though we discussed and agreed that we were splitting the bills even with him in NY. I asked him if I should rent out his room in December, and he said no.. so it's his responsibility right?
SO it's a hassel but i'm trying to get the phone out of his name. SPoke to him last night and he wants me to give a friend of ours some of his stuff to ship back to NY.. I had to pack all his shit and move it to storage. He expects me to go to storage, and call him and go through what I CAN have, sell give away and all that...
OK.. take a day out of my life to do that for him...
uh um,.... no...
He wants me to give our friend Bob his passport as well.. uh um no....It's my leverage to get my money..
He's the one that put us in this situation, and it's his fault that we won't be friends anymore..
am I over reacting?? He lives off the generosity of others... fucking parasite... I took better care of him than his fuckign family...
changing my locks today..
AM I right to want my money?
Friend 2. My new best friend and soon to be roomate..
He got a DUI a month ago. He's been doing coke for 3 days.. He called me this AM to brag about being up all night doing coke... When I said your outa control, he told me he's young and should be allowed to party, he said he is invincible..... uh.. um.... no...
soooooo, I wanna move in July, but don't imagine he's gonna have the money for the move, and should I trust living with him after all the shit Rob pulled?? I can't afford to live alone, it's way expensive for a 1 BR, and you get so much more room gettign a 2 BR.
What the fuck do I do? As much as I love this place I hate it.
John was one of my few friends that I liked to go out partying.. I don't have too many bar friends.. and it's sad, I'm super busy with stuff.. but I want to go out once in a while, ya know? and yea, this kinda sucks... need to make more friends....
1. My former best friend and former roomate.. Moved her with me, I paid for everything during the move and when we got here. He couldn't find work in SD (he's an illegal alien) He went back to NY to work for a few months, found a GF and isn't coming back. Most of his shit is still here, and his cell phone is still in my name. PLUS he owes me like $1,500. He hasn't even mentioend paying me back at all, even though we discussed and agreed that we were splitting the bills even with him in NY. I asked him if I should rent out his room in December, and he said no.. so it's his responsibility right?
SO it's a hassel but i'm trying to get the phone out of his name. SPoke to him last night and he wants me to give a friend of ours some of his stuff to ship back to NY.. I had to pack all his shit and move it to storage. He expects me to go to storage, and call him and go through what I CAN have, sell give away and all that...
OK.. take a day out of my life to do that for him...
uh um,.... no...
He wants me to give our friend Bob his passport as well.. uh um no....It's my leverage to get my money..
He's the one that put us in this situation, and it's his fault that we won't be friends anymore..
am I over reacting?? He lives off the generosity of others... fucking parasite... I took better care of him than his fuckign family...
changing my locks today..
AM I right to want my money?
Friend 2. My new best friend and soon to be roomate..
He got a DUI a month ago. He's been doing coke for 3 days.. He called me this AM to brag about being up all night doing coke... When I said your outa control, he told me he's young and should be allowed to party, he said he is invincible..... uh.. um.... no...
soooooo, I wanna move in July, but don't imagine he's gonna have the money for the move, and should I trust living with him after all the shit Rob pulled?? I can't afford to live alone, it's way expensive for a 1 BR, and you get so much more room gettign a 2 BR.
What the fuck do I do? As much as I love this place I hate it.
John was one of my few friends that I liked to go out partying.. I don't have too many bar friends.. and it's sad, I'm super busy with stuff.. but I want to go out once in a while, ya know? and yea, this kinda sucks... need to make more friends....