roxymonoxcide

I am SO sick of being fucking judged by association. Whatever SHE did to any of you is not my business and you shouldn't judge me because I like to hang out with her. She hasn't done anything fucked up to me. I am not the type of person who talks shit about others and spreads rumors. If you want to be my friend then be my friend because you like me, not for the people I do or don't hang out with. And if you can't be my friend because of people who I associate with then I don't want your friendship. I am tired of people not inviting me to events or parties or not talking to me at all just because she is my friend. If there are other reasons then fine. But being "guilty by association" of things that I dont' do (aka talk shit about others...or rather asking about people's ex-boyfriends for them).
I am my own person. Separate from my fiance and roommate. I don't have any problems with anyone on this site. So, I dont' see why people should have any problems with ME. All I have been hearing lately is:"you mostlikely didn't get accepted because she is on your profile as your crush" or "he doesn't talk to you much because you are friends with her and he thinks you might talk about him to her" or "he almost left the party because she was there." All this shit needs to stop. I am seriously getting so sick of it that I am thinking about leaving.
Sorry but I had to vent this shit out.
p.s. Stop assuming that I am "too busy" to hang out and just email or call if you want to see me. Its not hard..you do it for everyone else.