I have a question for SG peps? Recently I dated this girl who REFUSED to give me a BJ, but she loved when I went down on her. I'm a big fan of oral, giving and receiving, however I'm 33 years old and have only came three times from a blow job. I tried to tell her that I don't want her to go down on me so I can cum in her mouth it's just foreplay to me... She still refused saying it's just her gag reflexes.
My question is, if you dated someone and really liked them, and you could see it growing into a relationship how far into the relationship would you allow it to go knowing that you will never receive oral sex from them? Maybe it's not oral sex that's the hang up maybe it's something else that you like, but they just don't.. Then what?
Do you call it off or just learn to get by with it?.. What do you do?.. Help!
My question is, if you dated someone and really liked them, and you could see it growing into a relationship how far into the relationship would you allow it to go knowing that you will never receive oral sex from them? Maybe it's not oral sex that's the hang up maybe it's something else that you like, but they just don't.. Then what?
Do you call it off or just learn to get by with it?.. What do you do?.. Help!
but if she isnt willing to go down she shouldnt expect you to go down.