First off, it turns out that having my days switched worked out, i had Monday off also so it was great for me.
And now for something completely different.
A little story about girly. I guess when i saved her number in my phone i forgot the last digit. I shortly found out that those are kind of important. They are quite unlike the area code where if i live in the same area you can just leave them out. So there i am being the persistent guy that i am i no shit start at xxx0 and work my way up. I got to a number which is irrelevant so i wont mention it and it was the only one that both a dude did not answer and had a ring tone. But no voice mail. So i try a couple more and get a photo place(odd for me) and some old women both of which where most deff not her. Thats when i got bored, so i save the number with the ring tone and when on about my day. The next day, Sunday, I call that number again and a younger sounding girl answer. I guessed the correct number it and it was her. I tell her my little story and she makes fun of me because i deserve and we decide to run of to Seattle which turned out to be completely shut down. I should have expected it, after all it was 4pm when we left. I spare you the details because they ar not as entertaining as i would have liked anyways. Not really in a bad way, just different. She left my place just now. No lovin for Chris just in case you are wondering. I did find out some things about her. She is 20 which is a good thing for the most part(cant drink). She is fun to be around and very uhhh, outspoken? Yeah i guess that will work. Normally that would drive me nuts, but this time i kind of liked it. She was not stupid about it really. Just when someone was wrong she let them know. There is a story in that too but i wont get into it. The biggest thing i took out of the past two days is that she is sexy, and she is not in a place right now where it would be a good idea for me to step in. I got the details confused i think. But the main thing is she recently(about 1 or 2 months ago, i forget) parted ways with her soon to be husband. And that is our problem. She is not my normal girly, which i like. And she is trusting and as caring as you can be after just meeting a person. But she has the ex on her back door, who btw send her a bit more then just one text msg while we where hanging out asking her back. She is still loves him but is certainly a no for the getting back together thing. I would say i believed her if i had known her more then a couple days.
I am fine with complications in a relationship because it keeps things robust for lack of a better word. So my friends i pose a question. The obvious part is that we will not be an item now. But do i stick around and play friend and see where it goes way down the road while keeping my head on a swivel for some other potential? Or do I raise sails and disappear. I had a great time and like i said there is attraction in a more then just lets be friends sort of way. But i could just be friends also. I think.
The easy answer is that i just met her so going away would be simple. The not so simple answer is that im a nice guy and there is no real reason not to stick around and stay friends expect for the fact that you are attracted to her but she has a couple problems to work out first so that may be kind of weird. Also I have no idea weather or not she thinks i am interested
And for something else different. Why can I not be attracted to and meet someone simple. They are alway miles and miles away. Drug crazed. Just crazy. Broken or vacant. Rebounded. Obsessive. Or taken. It really is amazing how efficiently I can find the most complex or complicated people out that and become attracted to. Or the other way around and they come to me. I mean I believe every one is a little crazy. But i seem to find the experts in crazy and/or the ones who are unavailable in some way. Yay for me. Maybe i need to switch body washes or something.
-bloodyGIR
And now for something completely different.
A little story about girly. I guess when i saved her number in my phone i forgot the last digit. I shortly found out that those are kind of important. They are quite unlike the area code where if i live in the same area you can just leave them out. So there i am being the persistent guy that i am i no shit start at xxx0 and work my way up. I got to a number which is irrelevant so i wont mention it and it was the only one that both a dude did not answer and had a ring tone. But no voice mail. So i try a couple more and get a photo place(odd for me) and some old women both of which where most deff not her. Thats when i got bored, so i save the number with the ring tone and when on about my day. The next day, Sunday, I call that number again and a younger sounding girl answer. I guessed the correct number it and it was her. I tell her my little story and she makes fun of me because i deserve and we decide to run of to Seattle which turned out to be completely shut down. I should have expected it, after all it was 4pm when we left. I spare you the details because they ar not as entertaining as i would have liked anyways. Not really in a bad way, just different. She left my place just now. No lovin for Chris just in case you are wondering. I did find out some things about her. She is 20 which is a good thing for the most part(cant drink). She is fun to be around and very uhhh, outspoken? Yeah i guess that will work. Normally that would drive me nuts, but this time i kind of liked it. She was not stupid about it really. Just when someone was wrong she let them know. There is a story in that too but i wont get into it. The biggest thing i took out of the past two days is that she is sexy, and she is not in a place right now where it would be a good idea for me to step in. I got the details confused i think. But the main thing is she recently(about 1 or 2 months ago, i forget) parted ways with her soon to be husband. And that is our problem. She is not my normal girly, which i like. And she is trusting and as caring as you can be after just meeting a person. But she has the ex on her back door, who btw send her a bit more then just one text msg while we where hanging out asking her back. She is still loves him but is certainly a no for the getting back together thing. I would say i believed her if i had known her more then a couple days.
I am fine with complications in a relationship because it keeps things robust for lack of a better word. So my friends i pose a question. The obvious part is that we will not be an item now. But do i stick around and play friend and see where it goes way down the road while keeping my head on a swivel for some other potential? Or do I raise sails and disappear. I had a great time and like i said there is attraction in a more then just lets be friends sort of way. But i could just be friends also. I think.
The easy answer is that i just met her so going away would be simple. The not so simple answer is that im a nice guy and there is no real reason not to stick around and stay friends expect for the fact that you are attracted to her but she has a couple problems to work out first so that may be kind of weird. Also I have no idea weather or not she thinks i am interested
And for something else different. Why can I not be attracted to and meet someone simple. They are alway miles and miles away. Drug crazed. Just crazy. Broken or vacant. Rebounded. Obsessive. Or taken. It really is amazing how efficiently I can find the most complex or complicated people out that and become attracted to. Or the other way around and they come to me. I mean I believe every one is a little crazy. But i seem to find the experts in crazy and/or the ones who are unavailable in some way. Yay for me. Maybe i need to switch body washes or something.
-bloodyGIR
As for attraction. Don't count on me to know anything about that. I have a math problem for my attraction to men.
X^3= Y
X= number of miles a guy is from me
Y= how much I'm attracted to him
I'm an odd cookie when it comes to the dating game, even more so in recent history. I keep guys, people in general, at a safe distance because I've dealt with lots of pain, and if you don't get too close you can't hurt that much when you leave. I'm kinda workin on it though. Although, I'm really workin on finishing everything before end of term this week!
Which reminds me, we need to hang out when I go up north in a couple of weeks! It'll be my last chance to go up, more than likely, before spring term madness sets in.
I think you should let her know that you're very happy that you met in the park, and that you had a good time. Give her just enough feedback to know the door is open a crack, enough to know you're a nice guy who's excellent to be around. But don't pursue, and seriously don't pressure her.
And be honest. Sounds like she's the kind of girl that appreciates it.