rockpaperscissor

I have come to a cross roads in my life (man I hate it when people say that) It would take hours to explain everything about it so I am not going to. If any of you have ever had the ole "One who got away." you might get this a little more. Mine e-mailed me last week. I fell in love with this girl the second I met her and it stayed that way until things ended badly, well, awkwardly. That was 2 years ago, in another state, and what feels like another life time. Its a whole mess of gobble-d-gook, but for 2 years neither one of us could contact each other, out of fear of being discovered by the others significant other or our own. She has had enough with hers though and thats why she contacted me and I no longer have one. (god this is confusing) I talked to her a couple days ago, and yesterday, and I still have the same feelings for her and I'm pretty sure her for me but there is a catch
.......she's seven months pregnant!
No its not mine. She isn't married but she is still with the father, though he goes out almost every night to the bar and gets drunk. stays till closing, then comes home and starts fights with her. All she can talk about is how she wants out; the relationship, her family, the fucking state. Which can only lead me to think about what it is that I can do, which is crazy thinking. Steal her away to philadelphia, get married, raise her child as my own and live happily ever after. Or, stop responding to her emails, screen my calls and forget I ever knew someone named Kate. Both are kinda extreme but you get my drift. I have no idea what I am going to do, everyone I have tried to get advice from has said the same, monosylobic word. "NO!!!!!!"
Threw our greatest sacrifices come our greatest victories. Will this be my great sacrifice or will it be my greatest error?
I need help!
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p.s. please don't just say no