rigoxps

I would like y'all insight on what to do. I think and ack different than most I find it difficult to do ask a girl out because I don't start liking them untill I get to know them and by then I'm in the friend zone and there are girls I would love to date but don't want to start dating just because I think there(hot,fine,ECT) I want would rather know them and all their quirks and there attitude to be on par with who they are and not who there trying to be. More or less I would like the opportunity to date them. What do y'all think I should do. Odds are I'm still going to be me I would just like inside on both points of view