Hey, just wanted to let you know, girl I was dating here and there that I was thinking of ending things with emailed me a "I'm not seeing you anymore" email.
She was a nice girl. Pretty, smart, fun to talk with and hang out with.
My impression of last Saturday evening:
A fun night, we sat on the couch, watched some Kevin Smith, laughed, and i started messing with her, went in her bedroom, messed around (no sex) made her come, got a backrub, cuddled next to each other naked for a bit and I went home cause I was sleepy. She seemed like she had a great evening. Made no indication of I had made her feel bad.
Her impression via her email:
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I am going to try very hard to be polite here. Cause I'm really not feeling polite right now. Which is why your getting an email because if I called you right now, I can't promise I won't be horrid.
I'd like to think I"m a pretty easy going. I really would. And that I can over look or rationalize a lot of stuff.
I can over look the fact that almost everything you complained about last night are things that you can change if you try.
I can over look the fact you felt the need to spend the whole night griping about things that most of them are very trivial in the grand scheme of life in comparison to the situation of others, myself included.
I can overlook the fact that had you paid attention to half the things I've told you in the last two months you would realize this.
I will not over look the absolute humiliation I felt last night when I got naked for you and you couldn't even be bothered to look at me for more than two seconds before leaning back and beginning to gripe again. The fact that you didn't even attempt to touch me but preferred to lean back and close your eyes... I do not even know how to deal with that. I have never felt more rejected or repugnant when with someone before. If the only part of me you find desirable is my boobs and my mouth, you had no right to waste my time. You left me feeling ugly and used.
And though I'm really hoping that was not your intention it is exactly how I felt.
Perhaps you should keep that in mind next time you date a girl.
I for one, am walking away.
One, I did gripe part of the evening. I told her my reasoning was my aunt had just been rediagnosed with a brain tumor and wasn't gonna be with us much longer and even apologized for complaining so much. Apparently she missed this factor.
Two, I sent back a nice email apologizing to her for making her feel that way though it had not been my intention. I left out that she complains way more then I ever have about how she hates her job and wants a new job and hates all the people she works with and wah wah life is so hard cause I'm poor. I never once downed her for this. Or mentioned that I'm just as poor but dropped 85 bucks on her the other night taking her out for pizza, driving her to the closest IMAX theatre 60 miles away and treating her to AVATAR 3d.
Anyhow, I guess this saves me from having to end it a couple weeks from now. I just hate looking like a bad guy when I am not. Moving on.
what is hilarious is that if SHE bothered to get to know YOU, she would know that you are none of the things she made you out to be.
i'm sorry you had to deal with this psycho, but it's better to learn now that she's a freak.
i'm running out to get food, then i'll call you later and we can chat.