Well when people ask me what I do for a living I tell them I am retired (followed by strange looks).
My intentions after I got paid out from my previous job were to live of the money I had, sell all my junk/toys and do a few odd jobs here and there. Should be able to last about 12mths like this. I was intending after about six months to pack up, rent the house out and piss off for a while and maybe work in the mines.
Well first thing, after leaving work I decided to spend a couple of weeks up at my Mums place........... So what happens? I meet a girl and spend a month!.......... all good. we really hit it off BIG TIME
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So new plan is ......... she comes to my place for a couple of weeks (in about 2 weeks from now), then about a month
after that I go up there and work for a couple of months (farm work , all good...something different). then if all goes well, we decide what to do from there, either she moves down here with me or we move somewhere else (well it WAS a plan).
My mates boss asked him to get me in for a job interview , I have been waiting for something to come up there for a while.
So went for the interview today. What the fuck do I do if I get offered the job??
I mean I get a car and everything! it's pretty sweet. Do I just bite the bullet and say "hey move down" (she can't till after her sisters wedding in September) or do I say no to the job. I mean I feel very good about this relationship but at the same time I am trying to be very careful and think with my head, still got some trust issues after the last few debarcles (relationships). Also September is a long time
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My intentions after I got paid out from my previous job were to live of the money I had, sell all my junk/toys and do a few odd jobs here and there. Should be able to last about 12mths like this. I was intending after about six months to pack up, rent the house out and piss off for a while and maybe work in the mines.
Well first thing, after leaving work I decided to spend a couple of weeks up at my Mums place........... So what happens? I meet a girl and spend a month!.......... all good. we really hit it off BIG TIME
.
So new plan is ......... she comes to my place for a couple of weeks (in about 2 weeks from now), then about a month
after that I go up there and work for a couple of months (farm work , all good...something different). then if all goes well, we decide what to do from there, either she moves down here with me or we move somewhere else (well it WAS a plan).
My mates boss asked him to get me in for a job interview , I have been waiting for something to come up there for a while.
So went for the interview today. What the fuck do I do if I get offered the job??
I mean I get a car and everything! it's pretty sweet. Do I just bite the bullet and say "hey move down" (she can't till after her sisters wedding in September) or do I say no to the job. I mean I feel very good about this relationship but at the same time I am trying to be very careful and think with my head, still got some trust issues after the last few debarcles (relationships). Also September is a long time
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Dude, we are not you, and cant make the decision for you. Try writing up some pro's and cons for each option. Your brain will side with your heart and the right decision will come out.
Cheers