I am not a big pet person. I have two cats at home, for my daughters, and my girls really love them.
One of them has started peeing and pooping in MY BED. I have zero patience with that. At first I made sure to clean the box even more often, then I bought a new one. I am pregnant and I think that's wh the fuckin cat is reacting. Thing is, there is no way in hell I'm gonna close my bedroom door days in days out ( anyway i'm gonna share by bedroom with my little bb in 7 days)
If it was just me, I would just give her away or have her put down. I know, I'm mean. But really, I have no time and no tolerance for stupid ass animals. But I am trying to teach my dayghters that animals are for life. That ou can't use them like toys and then get rid of them.
What the fuck am I gonna do
I feel so agressive, it's a good thing they are both hiding, I would happily kick their fuckin asses out in the snow .
One of them has started peeing and pooping in MY BED. I have zero patience with that. At first I made sure to clean the box even more often, then I bought a new one. I am pregnant and I think that's wh the fuckin cat is reacting. Thing is, there is no way in hell I'm gonna close my bedroom door days in days out ( anyway i'm gonna share by bedroom with my little bb in 7 days)
If it was just me, I would just give her away or have her put down. I know, I'm mean. But really, I have no time and no tolerance for stupid ass animals. But I am trying to teach my dayghters that animals are for life. That ou can't use them like toys and then get rid of them.
What the fuck am I gonna do
I feel so agressive, it's a good thing they are both hiding, I would happily kick their fuckin asses out in the snow .VIEW 9 of 9 COMMENTS
But yeah, using Feliway on everything helps to remove territorial issues at home as well as reduce stress levels in new environments. Cats are engineered to be solitary, so multiple cats can never obtain an established heirarchy, (like dogs for example establishing a pack order) and there is a constant battle for dominance (which may or may not be noticeable) so occasionally you will have a cat avoiding the cat box or even food or water bowls in order to avoid confrontation with the other cat. But I have a feeling that your cats were reacting 'selfishly' to the idea of you bringing in another being into the household. Though they are more accepting of human members after a period of time than other kitties, so the problem may have dissolved.
And also toxoplasmosis can be obtained at any time throughout pregnancy, obviously you didn't get it because she is born without apparent defect, but that is advice for future pregnancies, if any. However, it is easy to avoid toxoplasmosis if you don't have anyone else to do kitty litter duty, just wear long gloves and a facial mask (like a surgeon's mask) when doing it while pregnant and wash ur hands after ur done. And it can also be obtained by managing your garden if you have a green thumb so you'd want to do the same thing there as well.