I am having what is known as 'a bad day'.
Just had a MASSIVE argument with my ex. He's teaching me to drive (bad idea) - he's a qualified instructor and we started him teaching me while we were still together last year. I crashed my first car (flipped in onto its side and totalled it) so I've been mega stressed getting a new car and learning from that point. We had a messy relationship and I had a miscarriage to him - lots of trauma.
Told him I dont think it's a good idea for him to continue teaching me (I'm at the stage where i booked my theory test for 1st aug and just need to practice parking- nearly there). He disagreed (as always) and I had to go into why - I got really emotional and started shouting at him. He's clinical - if you say one inaccurate thing (cos you're upset) he accuses you of 'making stuff up' and goes mad.
So I've just said 'bring the car round, park it in the street & post the keys through the letterbox'. That will have to be the end of things cos i cant have someone in my life who reduces me to tears and screaming fits pushing all my buttons.
Stress
I've redone my makeup (cried it off) & starting to feel better but it was a horrible experience.
~sometimes you just have to break away from someone and move on with your life~
Just had a MASSIVE argument with my ex. He's teaching me to drive (bad idea) - he's a qualified instructor and we started him teaching me while we were still together last year. I crashed my first car (flipped in onto its side and totalled it) so I've been mega stressed getting a new car and learning from that point. We had a messy relationship and I had a miscarriage to him - lots of trauma.
Told him I dont think it's a good idea for him to continue teaching me (I'm at the stage where i booked my theory test for 1st aug and just need to practice parking- nearly there). He disagreed (as always) and I had to go into why - I got really emotional and started shouting at him. He's clinical - if you say one inaccurate thing (cos you're upset) he accuses you of 'making stuff up' and goes mad.
So I've just said 'bring the car round, park it in the street & post the keys through the letterbox'. That will have to be the end of things cos i cant have someone in my life who reduces me to tears and screaming fits pushing all my buttons.
Stress
I've redone my makeup (cried it off) & starting to feel better but it was a horrible experience.
~sometimes you just have to break away from someone and move on with your life~
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suicideking11:
That definitely sounds like a situation where hiring someone, like you're planning, is probably a better idea. Maybe some day with a lot of time and distance you guys can work something out if you want to, but it doesn't sound like that time is now or soon. I'm sorry this happened and made you sad. Sometimes all you can do is rest and try to have a better day tomorrow. Here's hoping for a much better day for you 
hectorian:
sorry to hear about your troubling ordeal, it is better to just call it quits and move on! good luck!