Okay, time for a rant. For those of the weak hearted, easily offended, and whatnot, tough shit.
Long story short, she broke up with me. I'm not gonna play innocent and shit and say I didn't have it coming. She apparently thought that she was more into me than I was into her. Tonight we were supposed to chat about possibly getting back together since she'd called me about it earlier today, and when I got home (late night at work) there were a couple messages and one of 'em saying, "now I know how you really feel". Uh-huh.
Now I'm not gonna claim to be perfect in any way, shape or form, but to blast me for something I had no control of??? Gimmie a fuckin' break. Sorry I'm not your typical 90's sensitive, bend over backward, emotional type of guy. If I've got something personal to say, it's usually to one of my closest friends. Why, you may ask? In my experiences, if you let a girl you like know how you really feel, or much less try and explain what's going on, ('cause let's face it, most of us have or had lives BEFORE we met the significant other), she uses it to her advantage in every way, shape, and form.
The ex (or soon to be, since we're chatting now) has no problem bringing up all the shit I did wrong or just plain didn't do to frustrate HER.
Now let's add one more piece to the puzzle, she just started her period, and we ALL know how much fun THAT can be...
Now OK, I understand that a woman has that time of the month, and we all know what that means. Why is it we ALL have to suffer through it? ESPECIALLY the guys??? We KNOW you're going through hell, and we're gonna catch shit. So why is it we have to put up with it? Most all guys go along with the program saying, "It's okay honey" knowing they're not feeling well 'cause we ALL know if a guy said, "it's alright, you don't mean it, you're on the rag", we might as well put a gun to our heads. So really, what is it that keeps us from going, "It's alright hon, you don't mean it, you're PMSing"?
Women have fought for years for all this equality, I hear left and right about how they're SO equal to a guy, how they can do anything a guy can do and all that shit. If that's so true, why have I never seen or heard a woman offer to pick up a tab on a first date? Why have I never heard a buff woman say to a weak guy, "hey, let me help you with that"?
Why the fuck are we guys STILL bending over fucking backwards just because you've got a pussy? And I LOVE how every female, just because a guy talks to her, thinks all he wants is to get in her pants. How conceded. Here's something to think about....
What if he's genuinely interested?
What if he's just looking for that special person to wake up next to also?
What if you ACTUALLY had similar interests?
What if it was someone you could've actually LIKED if you'd gotten to know him better instead of just blowing him off as your "typical guy"?
I know I've more than likely pissed some people off here, and that my friends list will probably be shorter next time I'm on. Oh well, isn't that what this journal's for?
Long story short, she broke up with me. I'm not gonna play innocent and shit and say I didn't have it coming. She apparently thought that she was more into me than I was into her. Tonight we were supposed to chat about possibly getting back together since she'd called me about it earlier today, and when I got home (late night at work) there were a couple messages and one of 'em saying, "now I know how you really feel". Uh-huh.
Now I'm not gonna claim to be perfect in any way, shape or form, but to blast me for something I had no control of??? Gimmie a fuckin' break. Sorry I'm not your typical 90's sensitive, bend over backward, emotional type of guy. If I've got something personal to say, it's usually to one of my closest friends. Why, you may ask? In my experiences, if you let a girl you like know how you really feel, or much less try and explain what's going on, ('cause let's face it, most of us have or had lives BEFORE we met the significant other), she uses it to her advantage in every way, shape, and form.
The ex (or soon to be, since we're chatting now) has no problem bringing up all the shit I did wrong or just plain didn't do to frustrate HER.
Now let's add one more piece to the puzzle, she just started her period, and we ALL know how much fun THAT can be...
Now OK, I understand that a woman has that time of the month, and we all know what that means. Why is it we ALL have to suffer through it? ESPECIALLY the guys??? We KNOW you're going through hell, and we're gonna catch shit. So why is it we have to put up with it? Most all guys go along with the program saying, "It's okay honey" knowing they're not feeling well 'cause we ALL know if a guy said, "it's alright, you don't mean it, you're on the rag", we might as well put a gun to our heads. So really, what is it that keeps us from going, "It's alright hon, you don't mean it, you're PMSing"?
Women have fought for years for all this equality, I hear left and right about how they're SO equal to a guy, how they can do anything a guy can do and all that shit. If that's so true, why have I never seen or heard a woman offer to pick up a tab on a first date? Why have I never heard a buff woman say to a weak guy, "hey, let me help you with that"?
Why the fuck are we guys STILL bending over fucking backwards just because you've got a pussy? And I LOVE how every female, just because a guy talks to her, thinks all he wants is to get in her pants. How conceded. Here's something to think about....
What if he's genuinely interested?
What if he's just looking for that special person to wake up next to also?
What if you ACTUALLY had similar interests?
What if it was someone you could've actually LIKED if you'd gotten to know him better instead of just blowing him off as your "typical guy"?
I know I've more than likely pissed some people off here, and that my friends list will probably be shorter next time I'm on. Oh well, isn't that what this journal's for?
patient_zero:
Thanks for the b-day wishes!! 