Any advice on how to save a long distance relationship ?
It's kinda tough right now, it's already been 1 month since i last saw my gf, although i'm not gonna see her for another month or month and a half.. And right now as i'm into final exams i'm a ball of stress and this situation just makes me more and more anxious.
The thing is that we have then to work on some things, which i don't even know if we'll be able to arrange, and it's important and i'm at this point where i think i might have to end this relation if things don't change.
I don't want to enter into too much details here, but, well, i guess i need to confess because it's really bothering me.
And just to specify, the problems are mostly sex related...
luxes:
Hi!!I can understand you because I ve always had long distance relationship, and I feel better with this kind of relation, I'll try to explain you why. When you love a person that lives far from you, you can feel the feeling of missing, so much, and you can understand how much do you love and care that person while missing him/her. Is beautyful to know that both of you think about each other all the day,24 hours on 24! I also think that is better because is more sane for a relationship to meet your gf/bf less than a typical couple of lovers that stay together always. And when arrives the day that you finally meeet.... it's a moment awkward to describe....it's such a beautiful mix of emotions that you never forget in all your life. Sorry for my english, I hope I explained this concept well.....hope everything's fine with your relationship <3
raphou:
@luxes Yes i guess there is some things that make it stronger than a relationship where you see your bf/gf everyday, although since i've had some bad experiences and i see a lot of my friends in a relationship and they seem fine, i kind of envy them sometimes.. I talked to my gf on the phone the other day and it should get better, plus from september she will be where i live this year, so i guess i have to be patient, and i'm hoping everything is gonna come into place. Thanks for your advice :)