How hard is it when I take care of everything for you! This is a Question to figure out if I should keep my current girlfriend whom I believe is becoming a total leech!
The only thing I ask here to do is maintain the apartment! Correct me if I am wrong but here is my questions and I would like feedback on this please.
1) You do not have a job anymore, I only ask that you maintain the apartment, live there rent free and not worry about bills. I take care of them, Why should I have to come home to Clean the house that you have dirtied up! I eat only one meal a day at home, Dinner. Shouldn't you take care of the mess you and your daughter made.
2) I buy you everything, Cigarettes clothes hair shampoo soap toiletpaper, new phone, and pay all the bills, yet you still want more and I am tapped out! I am about done with this. Yes you are my girlfriend and I love you but you ar becoming a leech and don't do anything for yourself.
3) You say you are bored yet the hous is a mess you laid in bed all day and played Facebook games. Now I am doing the laundry, making dinner washing dishes, cleaning up the dirty ass house, Cause you are bored and lay in bed!
4) You only eat and sleep all day, try to help yourself is all I ask. Yet you go into a funk and state you are tired of hanging out at the house all day. I can not do things with you during the day because I have a job and work 6 days a week. I do that to maintain the lifestyle that we have. I am about tired of it. You are bleeding me dry. I can not just stop what I am doing to bring you cigarettes anytime during the day.
5) You feel depressed and angry about your life but when I ask you about it and try to help you, you freak out and tell me its not at you so don't worry about it. I worry about it cause I love you but this is getting ridiculous.
6) I want you to succeed, to do something with your life. ANYTHING I will support it but you have to get up off the bed and help yourself to water. I have given you several opportunities for jobs and leads,, yet you will not put forth the effort to even do anything about it.
7) Time feels like it is started to be wasted on spending time with you, You are becoming bland and dont care about anything anymore. When asked if you want to do something or go somewhere you decline yet you complain about not going anywhere.
8) If i made a list of pros and cons of this relationship I fear that there would be way more cons then pros.....Thats not good.
9) If whats mine is yours and yours is mine why is it that everything we have started from me. What are you bringing to the table.
I think its time to get a new girlfriend! This is getting ridiculous. Should I?
Thanks in advance for your feedback.
Love you all
DAVE
The only thing I ask here to do is maintain the apartment! Correct me if I am wrong but here is my questions and I would like feedback on this please.
1) You do not have a job anymore, I only ask that you maintain the apartment, live there rent free and not worry about bills. I take care of them, Why should I have to come home to Clean the house that you have dirtied up! I eat only one meal a day at home, Dinner. Shouldn't you take care of the mess you and your daughter made.
2) I buy you everything, Cigarettes clothes hair shampoo soap toiletpaper, new phone, and pay all the bills, yet you still want more and I am tapped out! I am about done with this. Yes you are my girlfriend and I love you but you ar becoming a leech and don't do anything for yourself.
3) You say you are bored yet the hous is a mess you laid in bed all day and played Facebook games. Now I am doing the laundry, making dinner washing dishes, cleaning up the dirty ass house, Cause you are bored and lay in bed!
4) You only eat and sleep all day, try to help yourself is all I ask. Yet you go into a funk and state you are tired of hanging out at the house all day. I can not do things with you during the day because I have a job and work 6 days a week. I do that to maintain the lifestyle that we have. I am about tired of it. You are bleeding me dry. I can not just stop what I am doing to bring you cigarettes anytime during the day.
5) You feel depressed and angry about your life but when I ask you about it and try to help you, you freak out and tell me its not at you so don't worry about it. I worry about it cause I love you but this is getting ridiculous.
6) I want you to succeed, to do something with your life. ANYTHING I will support it but you have to get up off the bed and help yourself to water. I have given you several opportunities for jobs and leads,, yet you will not put forth the effort to even do anything about it.
7) Time feels like it is started to be wasted on spending time with you, You are becoming bland and dont care about anything anymore. When asked if you want to do something or go somewhere you decline yet you complain about not going anywhere.
8) If i made a list of pros and cons of this relationship I fear that there would be way more cons then pros.....Thats not good.
9) If whats mine is yours and yours is mine why is it that everything we have started from me. What are you bringing to the table.
I think its time to get a new girlfriend! This is getting ridiculous. Should I?
Thanks in advance for your feedback.
Love you all
DAVE
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I think that every person should be responsible for themselves, the only reason I don't have a job is because I can't have one where we live and I can't go to school. It drives me crazy not to contribute.
Personal responsibility is number one in my book, what kind of person are you if you CAN take care of yourself but you DON'T! Seems to me that it's time for her to grow up and care for herself, that doesn't mean that you have to break up over it. If she gets pissed about having to take care of herself, do you really want to be with her?
just my humble view point, hope it helps
And yes, I'll tell that funny story when the set drops!