I know you're not trying to sound mean, and neither am I... despite how everything both of us has written seems that way. Bear in mind though... "my idea of what constitutes a friendship" can hardly be determined solely by your experience. I've really only known you a little over a year... so don't assume I've always been this way. It's only been within the past few years that I decided not to let anyone get too close, or to get too close to anyone.
my mom's pair is rca and they seem to have good reviews