So, after a conversation with an ex tonight I was thinking...
I have been single now for about 6 months. Not an extreamly long time. I have had a few occassions with no strings attached sex that have been fun and wonderful. The frequency isn't what I would like but then again is it really ever?
Thinking about that I wondered if I was ready to start dating or have a girlfriend again. I still don't think I want that. At least not all of the sudden. I'm thinking that what I want is more a friend I can curl up on the couch with a couple of times a week and have sex with without it being a "relationship".
Does this actually happen or am I living in a dream world? Normally only two things have ever happened to me: one night stands or relationships. I would much rather have an inbetween. I guess what I"m saying is I wouldn't mind a girlfriend as long as it's relaxed and we aren't talking about marriage and long term right out of the gate. Just someone I can go out drinking with and chill with with no problems, as well as a sexual realtionship that is consistant and fun.
hmmmm....Either way, I'm just thinking about my dating status outloud tonight.
I have been single now for about 6 months. Not an extreamly long time. I have had a few occassions with no strings attached sex that have been fun and wonderful. The frequency isn't what I would like but then again is it really ever?
Thinking about that I wondered if I was ready to start dating or have a girlfriend again. I still don't think I want that. At least not all of the sudden. I'm thinking that what I want is more a friend I can curl up on the couch with a couple of times a week and have sex with without it being a "relationship".
Does this actually happen or am I living in a dream world? Normally only two things have ever happened to me: one night stands or relationships. I would much rather have an inbetween. I guess what I"m saying is I wouldn't mind a girlfriend as long as it's relaxed and we aren't talking about marriage and long term right out of the gate. Just someone I can go out drinking with and chill with with no problems, as well as a sexual realtionship that is consistant and fun.
hmmmm....Either way, I'm just thinking about my dating status outloud tonight.

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I think it is possible, but you'd have to be very clear about your intentions. Those situations can get complicated if you're not careful.
Take care~