My apologies for not posting lately, but I am NOT as young as I used to be. I have a new client that is happily married, except that her husband is not a 'sexual' person. Even at the beginning, he was only marginally interested in sex, and his drive has gone down substantially since. That is to say, she has had no sexual contact with...
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twwly:
If you don't have a healthy sex life, then you're just friends. Period.
I'm in San Francisco on 'business' this week. One of the beautiful parts of what I do, is that I get to travel - alot. San Francisco is one of my favorite cities - there's so much to do, and so many freaky people and places. How many cities have a place like The Power Exchange - a 3 story public sex club?
Anyway, it's...
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benci:
that IS quite the compliment. good for you.
i'm back. kind of. well, we'll see.
i'm back. kind of. well, we'll see.
jordan:
you seem like a very intresting fellow. i liked the shower part. anyway, if you want i can send you a copy of Demonic. it would be easier to email it.
take care
take care
One of my newer clients is a small, demure Brazillian woman. Completely adorable. She married one of her first boyfriends, and just divorced after about 15 years. They had no sex the past 3 or 4 years. There are a couple of problems she's dealing with:
First, she feels completely un-sexy because of his lack of interest over a long period of time. She feels...
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First, she feels completely un-sexy because of his lack of interest over a long period of time. She feels...
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morningbloom:
it was pretty slummy stuff. Man is back now, I should update I suppose.
cara:
(sigh)
Wierd....double posted my last entry.
oxy:
double post this one aswell...start a trend.
I've decided to 'come out' in this journal entry. I've decided to tell you all what I do for a living, and to do it in the form of this survey. I'm going to post my thoughts on my profession and my experiences here...if I can figure out how to say what I want to say.
My friend, Benci just 'tagged' me to write 20...
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benci:
Was there an actual explanation of what you do in there somewhere??
4. Possibly a kite drawn by my son. On my tummy.
5. Well, I just do.
7. If youre falling asleep or having trouble with it and you need a good dream, I can give you one. Really, I can. Ask my son, my exes, my sister or my mother.
10. Owning and honoring individual relationships is a great way to deal with or even avoid jealousy. There is no reason to compare one to another if you redirect your energy toward just reveling in all the good stuff each offer, uniquely. (I dont know how to say that without sounding so corny and pompous. It is true in spite of that)
16. Well, I just do. It is a no-brainer for me.
18. I guess I kind of enjoy being lost and finding my way out of it (often with help, admittedly)
Now, let me ask you something. Getting me to elaborate on these things is just one aspect of the talent that makes you successful at whatever it is that you do. Right?
Well, thanks!
4. Possibly a kite drawn by my son. On my tummy.
5. Well, I just do.
7. If youre falling asleep or having trouble with it and you need a good dream, I can give you one. Really, I can. Ask my son, my exes, my sister or my mother.
10. Owning and honoring individual relationships is a great way to deal with or even avoid jealousy. There is no reason to compare one to another if you redirect your energy toward just reveling in all the good stuff each offer, uniquely. (I dont know how to say that without sounding so corny and pompous. It is true in spite of that)
16. Well, I just do. It is a no-brainer for me.
18. I guess I kind of enjoy being lost and finding my way out of it (often with help, admittedly)
Now, let me ask you something. Getting me to elaborate on these things is just one aspect of the talent that makes you successful at whatever it is that you do. Right?
Well, thanks!
fatality:
Welcome to the Halo!
What is it with women and their breasts?
I had two clients yesterday. That's a bit unusual, but could not be avoided in this instance. However, both women were HORRIBLY embarrased regarding their breasts. The first woman is a long-term client, and her breasts are somewhat uneven, but are NOT ugly in any sense. The second woman was a first-time client, and her breasts were...
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I had two clients yesterday. That's a bit unusual, but could not be avoided in this instance. However, both women were HORRIBLY embarrased regarding their breasts. The first woman is a long-term client, and her breasts are somewhat uneven, but are NOT ugly in any sense. The second woman was a first-time client, and her breasts were...
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howdypardner:
what do you do?
benci:
dude, have i told you lately how much i LIKE you??
Tag. You're it!!!
"Write 20 random facts about yourself then tag the same amount of people as minutes it takes you to write the facts. If you're tagged it's your turn."
Tag. You're it!!!
"Write 20 random facts about yourself then tag the same amount of people as minutes it takes you to write the facts. If you're tagged it's your turn."
What does a condom feel like?
I had an interesting discussion with a couple of college-aged boneheads. They were essentially of the opinion that condoms only suck for guys, that women can't feel much of a difference. That it's mostly the guy who gets fucked over by using a condom. I couldn't imagine that being the case, but never having had a condom-encased dick inside...
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I had an interesting discussion with a couple of college-aged boneheads. They were essentially of the opinion that condoms only suck for guys, that women can't feel much of a difference. That it's mostly the guy who gets fucked over by using a condom. I couldn't imagine that being the case, but never having had a condom-encased dick inside...
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I saw a movie last night that I thought was interesting - Crash Anyone seen it? If not, you should check it out.
My take on the movie was a couple of things:
1. Racism is everywhere.
2. The world is a fucked up place. And the reasons why are complicated.
ANYWAY, anyone whose seen it, let me know what you thought.
My take on the movie was a couple of things:
1. Racism is everywhere.
2. The world is a fucked up place. And the reasons why are complicated.
ANYWAY, anyone whose seen it, let me know what you thought.
I didn't make it up at 4:00 today. My body hurt so bad I couldn't reach over to get the alarm for a good 2 or 3 minutes. I got up at 5:45 instead. I cannot figure out why I hurt so bad. My back, knees, hands, ribs. It's not just a dull ache, either. Really accute pain. Advil and Aleve only take it so...
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benci:
i might. where've you been? 
I came across this article today, and thought it was interesting. I think it's a general truth (not a universal truth) that women lose interest in sex with their partner as the relationship progresses. (This study agrees, but sites a different cause). I don't think it's only family or job or lack of sleep. But there must be something, right?
Do men stop trying to...
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ash:
woah. There is some truth to this article , I sure hope I dont turn into one of those women!!
benci:
this just doesn't apply to me so far. some of it was in the ballpark for one relationship but i'm skeptical of most of it. i need to be! 