An FAQ Post:
Been awhile since I've done this, so for those who haven't read back far enough:
How do i accept payment? Depends on the client. Cash is typical, but for long time clients, it can be less formal.
How do I find clients? Exclusively via word of mouth. I started with a fuck buddy who said i should do it professionally....then said she had a friend who'd pay for it....years later here I am. My clients tell their girlfriends, who call me. I always have an initial meeting to see if there's enough chemistry to make it work. Dostoeyevsky said in The Brothers K - there's something beautiful in every woman. I try and find that, then build on that. The first meeting (coffee, drinks whatever) is about seeing where it's at. The chemistry thing is as much for them as for me. I have long curly blond hair (think Robert Plant in The Song Remains the Same), full sleeves, pierced nipples etc. When I am meeting a client, I always dress very, very well so it creates a pretty interesting package for them. The 'I can't figure this guy out' and the bad boy / good guy thing are huge turn ons, so it works well. If there is interest on both party's, we proceed per the womans wishes. Sometimes dinner, sometimes I cook. Sometimes bubble baths and candles, sometimes not. Just depends on the woman and what their interests are.
In the past, I've had people question whether or not there are women who would be interested in this. Fuck man, are you kidding me? There are far, far more women interested than I would ever have time or interest in. Women are lonely, they are not desired, husbands do not invest emotionally in sex with them, blah blah blah. I just give them a little piece of what they want and deserve. It makes their lives manageable or easier to deal with. They don't want out, the just want a little piece here or there. I'm easier and more reliable than an office fuck-buddy, no random hook ups in bars that typically end up badly. And, I am exceedingly good at what I do.
Been awhile since I've done this, so for those who haven't read back far enough:
How do i accept payment? Depends on the client. Cash is typical, but for long time clients, it can be less formal.
How do I find clients? Exclusively via word of mouth. I started with a fuck buddy who said i should do it professionally....then said she had a friend who'd pay for it....years later here I am. My clients tell their girlfriends, who call me. I always have an initial meeting to see if there's enough chemistry to make it work. Dostoeyevsky said in The Brothers K - there's something beautiful in every woman. I try and find that, then build on that. The first meeting (coffee, drinks whatever) is about seeing where it's at. The chemistry thing is as much for them as for me. I have long curly blond hair (think Robert Plant in The Song Remains the Same), full sleeves, pierced nipples etc. When I am meeting a client, I always dress very, very well so it creates a pretty interesting package for them. The 'I can't figure this guy out' and the bad boy / good guy thing are huge turn ons, so it works well. If there is interest on both party's, we proceed per the womans wishes. Sometimes dinner, sometimes I cook. Sometimes bubble baths and candles, sometimes not. Just depends on the woman and what their interests are.
In the past, I've had people question whether or not there are women who would be interested in this. Fuck man, are you kidding me? There are far, far more women interested than I would ever have time or interest in. Women are lonely, they are not desired, husbands do not invest emotionally in sex with them, blah blah blah. I just give them a little piece of what they want and deserve. It makes their lives manageable or easier to deal with. They don't want out, the just want a little piece here or there. I'm easier and more reliable than an office fuck-buddy, no random hook ups in bars that typically end up badly. And, I am exceedingly good at what I do.