Is it just the people in this town or is there drama everywhere? Because I've had my share of small town drama and I'm about to start kicking some (dumb) ass.
One of my best friends in the world is refusing to be my friend right now. He e-mailed me saying it is best for me to forget about him and move on, that its been a great three years of knowing me but I'm better off this way. I have done nothing. He and my boyfriend have had some sort of falling out. Dustin started a musical project about a year ago and this friend of mine decided to get in on it. As time went by, it became clear that he didn't have time to devote to it (he works two jobs and lives about a half hour away). Dustin was thinking of how to tell him he wasn't working out when we found out the friend was gonna start playing acoustic shows with a co-worker of his. Not really a big deal. Dustin was a little hurt and a little pissed that he had time for that but not his band. I don't know what happened, but now they are either ignoring each other online or cursing at each other is foreign languages. All of the bands CDs that my friend had showed up by our door yesterday morning. I'm in the middle of something I don't even understand and don't want to be involved in. This guy has been the truest friend to me and is always there for me and now he doesn't want anything to do with me. And of course I love my boyfriend, so I'm fucking pissed at the immaturity that seems to be causing this drama. Come on guys, why can't you be friends even though you aren't in a band together? It really doesn't seem like a big deal to me. What am I missing?
One of my best friends in the world is refusing to be my friend right now. He e-mailed me saying it is best for me to forget about him and move on, that its been a great three years of knowing me but I'm better off this way. I have done nothing. He and my boyfriend have had some sort of falling out. Dustin started a musical project about a year ago and this friend of mine decided to get in on it. As time went by, it became clear that he didn't have time to devote to it (he works two jobs and lives about a half hour away). Dustin was thinking of how to tell him he wasn't working out when we found out the friend was gonna start playing acoustic shows with a co-worker of his. Not really a big deal. Dustin was a little hurt and a little pissed that he had time for that but not his band. I don't know what happened, but now they are either ignoring each other online or cursing at each other is foreign languages. All of the bands CDs that my friend had showed up by our door yesterday morning. I'm in the middle of something I don't even understand and don't want to be involved in. This guy has been the truest friend to me and is always there for me and now he doesn't want anything to do with me. And of course I love my boyfriend, so I'm fucking pissed at the immaturity that seems to be causing this drama. Come on guys, why can't you be friends even though you aren't in a band together? It really doesn't seem like a big deal to me. What am I missing?
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It's odd... before I turned 18, I was this carefree person that wasn't afraid of anything. Then, all of a sudden, I don't know what happened, but I felt like I was 50 and I had to settle down
Oh, and I probably would've been better with my money at that time had I known what I know now haha.