quietdesperation

reading the local free weekly paper. dan savage the sex advice columnist had an article from a woman who was wondering if she was asexual. she gave her husband oral sex, but that was it. had no interest in anything else. one of the things savage mentioned was that his take on 'asexual' was "sexual indifference". well that applies to many many many women. if men were as 'indifferent' there would be no sites that pay women to take their clothes off and prostitution would not exist. the whole sex industry revolves around the strong sexual drive of men and the general indifference of women. i found the x-rated personals in the same paper a revealing commentary on our life and times. there were 18 ads by men looking for a sexual relationship with women and only 1 by a woman looking for the same in a man. the kicker for me was this woman who is entering an x-rated ad says in the copy that she "is not in a hurry to bed anyone since it seems like a huge waste of time..." now how many men think sex is a "huge waste of time"? then on top of these highly disproportionate male/female ad ratios was a total of 7 ads for women looking for sex with another women. it seems that hetrosexual males with a normal male libedo should commit mass suicide.